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I'm nervous as hell!


Question Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 8:07 pm

Ok,today right after my after school program I got to see one of my friends,whom I have'ent seen since summer break and she's in high school while I'm a 8th grader.Anyways we hugged,talked about what was going on our lives and things like that.Well I soon started telling her about my secret crush i still have since my last days of being a 7th grader.Well when i told her his name and how he used to look like and how he looks like now,when she was trying to picture him I saw him right behind us and he was'ent that from us either.I felt my heart sinking cause I really think that he heard me cause when i saw him he was looking at me!When he walked towrads a kid who called him i tried to convince myself that he did'ent hear a thing but my friend had to make it more worse by telling me that maybe he did hear me cause 'No dude just stands there like a dumbass.' I peeked at him a little but i could'ent tell if he was talking to his friend or just standing there.

Now I'm afriad he won't want to talk to me if he did hear me.I wanna stay relaxed and forget about it but I just Can't!

Also recently and espically today he's beening staring at me or looking my way.What does that mean?Not that I want to think negative but I really doubt he would like me.


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sunwater356 answered Friday September 14 2007, 10:01 pm:
if this boy did hear you, that might not be such a bad thing. boys wont know if they should ask you out or do anything if they dont know that you like them. so it wouldnt be bad if he knew.

when you are talking to him, or around him, act cool. dont act nervous or dont avoid him, he will think that you dont like him anymore. and he will think you dont want to have anything to do with him.

if he is looking at you and staring at you, maybe he likes you. dont doubt yourself, he could like you! dont worry about this whole situation, it could be for the better.

good luck!

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peoplemakemuffinsdaily answered Friday September 14 2007, 9:52 pm:
First of all, be confident. Chin up, sister! If he doesn't like you, then bummer. This happened to me once, where i was talking about having a crush on a guy, and him overhearing me. I was absolutely mortified. He was a popular guy, and me, not so much. So of course it didnt work out. But i just kept on walking, because I knew that maybe it wasnt meant to be. Ah, well. And you know what? He might like you too! I know if I heard a guy who i liked at the time talking about having a crush on me, i would take two different routes: standing there (as he did) or smiling and acting all giggly. Of course guys prefer the first one, because it doesnt exactly make them look tough. It's a good sign that he is looking at you a lot. Personally, if you catch him staring, you either have a huge bug on your forehead, or he thinks youre pretty, even just for a moment. So doing it a lot, must mean that he has at least some feelings for you. I think you should go up to him and tell him how you feel. Even if you may not be confident, doing this at least portrays some courage, thus confidence. Confidence, as most people know, is an instinctive turn on to guys. If he says no, then thats really bad, its happened to people before. If he cant see what you have, and what he's missing, then keep searching. You might just find him in the strangest places.
Srry its so long, hope i helped!!! <3

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