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this might sound really dumb but im 15 and ive never kissed anyone. my boyfriend wants to and i do too but i dont know what to do or anything. please help. thanks (link)
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some people are late bloomers, and thats ok. honestly, i didnt get my first kiss until i was 15. i was always freaking out and i had a million different questions floating in my mind. i was so scared.
people say 'it just comes naturally' or 'the only practice you can get is by actually kissing' or something like thar. people kept telling me those things, and i still had no idea what to do or what it meant. when it happened for me, i realized - everyone was totally right. dont worry. when it happens, you will realize how easy it is. it seriously just comes naturally and you will know exactly what to do, without even thinking about it. i cant stress that enough. dont get nervous when he makes a move, and let him make the first move.
i hope this helps!!!
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AH! 15/f...I have this guy that I FELL IN LOVE WITH at the beginning of the year. Just infatuated though, lol. I never talk to him. Because I'm too shy. But I really really really like him. And he always makes eye contact with me and smiles.
So yesterday, my friend comes online and tells me "I'm going to make it happen for you and [his name]. for sure. I got your back ;) I can make the connection between you two because you both are my friend"
And, of course, anyone would get SUPER excited. And I was. But now I'm beginning to doubt this. Has anyone on here ever been set up by a friend to be with a guy? I really want to be with him. It's like killing me inside. Self-confidence is a big issue here though. I'm not ugly, but I don't know how to look at myself/what to see in myself from the side. I don't know what guys think of me.
How can I better the chance of this working out? =( Thanks so much in advance. (link)
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i dont think you should have your friend hook you guys up. besides, why would you want that to happen if youre too shy to even talk to him? first, you should work up to talking to him. and then maybe the feelings between the both of you will expand. youll never know if you dont talk to him. i dont think you should let anyone get involved. it should just be you and the boy. you said you really want to be with him .... and it will happen if you take it slow. dont rush things, you dont want anything to be awkward. hope this helps!
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Ok,today right after my after school program I got to see one of my friends,whom I have'ent seen since summer break and she's in high school while I'm a 8th grader.Anyways we hugged,talked about what was going on our lives and things like that.Well I soon started telling her about my secret crush i still have since my last days of being a 7th grader.Well when i told her his name and how he used to look like and how he looks like now,when she was trying to picture him I saw him right behind us and he was'ent that from us either.I felt my heart sinking cause I really think that he heard me cause when i saw him he was looking at me!When he walked towrads a kid who called him i tried to convince myself that he did'ent hear a thing but my friend had to make it more worse by telling me that maybe he did hear me cause 'No dude just stands there like a dumbass.' I peeked at him a little but i could'ent tell if he was talking to his friend or just standing there.
Now I'm afriad he won't want to talk to me if he did hear me.I wanna stay relaxed and forget about it but I just Can't!
Also recently and espically today he's beening staring at me or looking my way.What does that mean?Not that I want to think negative but I really doubt he would like me. (link)
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if this boy did hear you, that might not be such a bad thing. boys wont know if they should ask you out or do anything if they dont know that you like them. so it wouldnt be bad if he knew.
when you are talking to him, or around him, act cool. dont act nervous or dont avoid him, he will think that you dont like him anymore. and he will think you dont want to have anything to do with him.
if he is looking at you and staring at you, maybe he likes you. dont doubt yourself, he could like you! dont worry about this whole situation, it could be for the better.
good luck!
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14/f and I've never kissed a boy on the lips before. I've heard that you can practice against your hand or a wall or something, so I practiced once and a question came to mind, when you're kissing... are you supposed to be breathing?? if so, then through your nose or mouth?? how exactly do you breath when your kissing, cause i don't wanna stop every 4 seconds taking a breath, or breathing through my nose and having air being blowed on his skin. so could someone explain all of this to me??
also maybe any other helpful first time kissing tips and stories??
please no links! thank you! (link)
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dont freak out. you're 14 - havent kissed a boy, its alright. some people are late bloomers, and thats ok. honestly, i didnt get my first kiss until i was 15. i was always freaking out and i had a million different questions floating in my mind. i was so scared.
im sure youve heard people say 'it just comes naturally' or 'the only practice you can get is by actually kissing' or things along those lines. people kept telling me those things, and i still had no idea what to do, or what that meant. when it happened for me, i realized - everyone was exactly right. you're getting all crazy about it now, but dont. dont worry. when it happens, you will realize how easy it is. it seriously, just comes naturally and you will know exactly what to do, without even thinking about it. i cant stress that enough.
when you're kissing, especially with tongue, you should always be breathing ... because if you dont, that wouldnt be good ... =P you breath through your nose. you'll probably stop kissing for a few seconds, everyone does. in those few seconds, before you start kissing again, you breathe. dont get nervous when he makes a move, and let him make the first move.
i hope this helps!!!
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I need answer ASAP!
Ok so this can get kinda confusing.
My BFF went out with a guy "Mark", and then he broke up with her last year but she has never stopped liking him. And Mark is also my ex's best friend. I didn't think Mark and I would still be friends because, of my ex, but today I ate lunch with him and some of my firends and I had a balst with him, and we were both kind of flirting with each other. I like him but I don't know if I should or not cause of that whole "girl code" thing. What do I do??? (link)
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this is a tough situation. there really isnt a 'girl code', but people wouldnt view you in a nice way if you broke the 'chicks before dicks' rule. i cant tell you not to like him, but i think it would be best if you laid off of him, for now anyway. im sure your ex and bff would be pretty upset with you if anything were to happen between you and mark. if you really like him, and you think he likes you, talk to your bff and maybe your ex about it.
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1)HOW do i remove that, approval comment thing and that picture comment thing?!
2) where can i get a countdown besides on http://www.blingblob.com ?! (link)
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1) myspace comments: go to account settings, click spam, and under the suptopic communications settings, check any boxes in the comments section.
2) makeacountdown.com
hope this helps!
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