Hi. My name is Liz. I live to love, I love and learn. I'm here to give advice to anyone dealing with a broken heart, self mutilation, anorexia/bulemia, teen pregnancy, sex, drugs-- you know, your basic teen problems. I here to read all of your questions, and help in any way I can. I'm not here to judge, mainly because I've been through almost all the things listed above. Feel free to contact me anytime.
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Age: 17
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sorry if this gets long, but i appreciate anyone who anwsers.
in the last two days i've lost over like seriously 5 friends. one of which imed me and told me about 5 people who think im a slut! one of which i like. but just met that day. because i typed that i cut myself.
im crying nonstop all the time, i hate who i am. ive been having suicide thoughts nonstop. im emotionally dead basically, and im hurting myself physically. i cant ask anyone for help, ill just scare them away /=
i used to be like this on and off, usually on, since 5th grade, i dont want pain anymore. i told everyone not to talk to me, im going to delete my myspace account.
one girl imed me telling me i have to give up a friendship for a while because of this kids girlfriend needing help, when i need it just as much. i feel like im a sob story. but im dead serious. i need help from anyone! (link)
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I've been where you are.
From the time that I was 11, until about the age of 15, I mutilated my body, either by burning, cutting, or scratching myself. You need to find someone to talk to, someone trustworthy, and not judgemental.
For the longest time I thought that mutilating myself was a form of "pain reliever", emotionally anyways. But harming yourself physically will not rid you of your problems.
It took a really long time for me to realize that, it almost became a habit, kind of like taking tylenol for a headache. Whenever I got depressed, I went for a lighter, razor.. whatever I could find.
Ignore those people that talk crap about you; in 10 years, none of those people that matter. People are going to talk about you all day long, no matter how nice, caring,etc. you are. There's shady people everywhere you go. You just have to learn to become immune to their words.
I wish you luck. Feel free to contact me anytime if you need someone to talk to.
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you know how when you dye your hair sometimes it goes gray? ..how come it does that? and how can you get rid of it? after how many dyes will it go gray? ..thanks (link)
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I've dyed my hair a million times now and I know what you're talking about. It comes from over processing your hair; or trying to cover blonde with a darker shade. Stay away from cheap hair dyes, the price is nice, but the outcome is usually not what you're looking from. Also, if you're going for a dramatic hair change, do it gradually. This should reduce the chances of getting those grays.
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Alright im really not good at explaining things but ill try my best. It might be long , just to warn you. Here goes:
This boy and I started talking like 3 weeks ago while away together on a trip. When we started talking , we would joke around like we liked eachother. Than when we got back we texted A LOT. WE decided to get to know eachother before anything else. Than theres this girl who leads guys on a ton. Apparently she liked him and hes had feelings for her in the past. So we texted and were talking about it and i pretty much talked him out of it and everything was fine until she talked to him again and had him convinced to like her and everything. Gay right ? Anyways i was really mad for a couple days but i got over it and apoligzed for being a b*tch. We started texting again a lot and recently he told me that him and this girl dont like eachother anymore. When we text we call eachother babe and say cute stuff like that , but he says he just wants to be friends. Everytime i see him which is like a couple times a week, we dont talk . I dont know what to say to him. It seems so much easier in texting. Anyways what should i do ?! I feel like he acts like he likes me and than he says i just want to be friends. Ughh! (link)
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Sounds to me the he is confused about what he really wants, so in the mean time, give him alittle space, and let him figure out what it is that he wants, and in your case, hopefully that will be you. Gather your feelings, and try talking to him about how you feel. Maybe once you talk to him, it'll be easier for him to decide on what it is he wants. If he wants to stay friends, stay positive, it's not going through a relationship if both of you are not on the same level. Hope I helped alittle. Good luck!
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