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Alright im really not good at explaining things but ill try my best. It might be long , just to warn you. Here goes:
This boy and I started talking like 3 weeks ago while away together on a trip. When we started talking , we would joke around like we liked eachother. Than when we got back we texted A LOT. WE decided to get to know eachother before anything else. Than theres this girl who leads guys on a ton. Apparently she liked him and hes had feelings for her in the past. So we texted and were talking about it and i pretty much talked him out of it and everything was fine until she talked to him again and had him convinced to like her and everything. Gay right ? Anyways i was really mad for a couple days but i got over it and apoligzed for being a b*tch. We started texting again a lot and recently he told me that him and this girl dont like eachother anymore. When we text we call eachother babe and say cute stuff like that , but he says he just wants to be friends. Everytime i see him which is like a couple times a week, we dont talk . I dont know what to say to him. It seems so much easier in texting. Anyways what should i do ?! I feel like he acts like he likes me and than he says i just want to be friends. Ughh!
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holy crap, you have no idea how much that sounds like me and my 2 friends. Seriously though... that's kinda like the same exact thing that happened to me. My 2 friends were going out and I kinda liked him. She introduced me to him and we texted more than usual. Then I found out that they broke up. I was happy for me because then maybe I could go out with him... but sad for my bff cuz she dumped him. So since they wern't talking to each other. I talked to him and her. when me and him were texting, he would always sound that he liked me, but in person... we wouldn't be that close. Now, a couple of days ago, I find out he has a girlfriend... but we still are friends. So now i'm giving him space.
sooo what's the whole point of that story, you ask??
Give him some space. Soon he will figure out what his heart truely desires. If it's her or you. I'm still waiting for him to make the first move and see what he wants. If he wants his current gf, me or my bff.....
If I were you, drop a few hints that you are interested in him, but beware! don't do too much too soon because he could feel uncomfortable and that could ruin your friendship with him. got it??
just flirt a little and see maybe if he want's to go to a movie ((don't mention it as a date, just as a hang-out)) and see what happens. Oh and don't get too involved because that other girl could get very jelous and start a cat fight with you.
I hope I helped!
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Sounds to me the he is confused about what he really wants, so in the mean time, give him alittle space, and let him figure out what it is that he wants, and in your case, hopefully that will be you. Gather your feelings, and try talking to him about how you feel. Maybe once you talk to him, it'll be easier for him to decide on what it is he wants. If he wants to stay friends, stay positive, it's not going through a relationship if both of you are not on the same level. Hope I helped alittle. Good luck!
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