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I'm not mean!
16.f.
When I'm with close friends, family, or if I'm comfortable I am very funny and outgoing. When I'm not, I'm quiet and 'laid back." I recently transferred schools. I met some people in my theater class and they thought I was mean! One guy thought I was because I just handed him a paper and didn't tell him what to do with it, but I assumed he knew because the teacher just explained. Another guy liked me (the feeling was NOT mutual, but he was hilarious) and was CLEARLY playing around with me one day and I started backing away with a smile and laughing he said "YOU'RE HELLA MEAN BACKING AWAY. THAT'S MESSED UP." WHAT? I was kidding! I'm starting to think they were intimidated by me because about a week earlier all the guys named me "prettiest girl in the class" and they took everything to heart..... but. EVERYONE always thinks I'm mean! I'm the nicest most sweetest person! I hate when people are mean to each other! WHAt CAN I DO? WHY DO THEY THINK I'M MEAN? This is bothering me. When I meet people I don't want to just expose myself! I have to feel around, ya know?
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hey,
okay you may not think your mean and im not saying that you are mean either!maybe its just the way you look at them-body language!
like rolling your eyes can make it seem like your mean!
if they think your mean maybe you should'nt hang around those people!
hope i helped!
love,sarah
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woah woah woah. tone it down a bit. i mean, of course theyd be indimidated by you, but (and im just being honest here) by the way you explain yourself, it seems that you might intimidate them not only with your looks, but with your personality as well. you sound very confident, and that can really make girls afraid of you, thus "mean." just try to be as nice (and humble) as possible, and hopefully the intimidation will stop.
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