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My Boyfriend
I love my boyfriend. with all i have. we have been together for 9 months and i know, i KNOW i love him. but he and i are a really close couple. our lives kinda suck so we stick to each other. we are very dependent, we are each others best friends, each others everything. he used to have a ton of friends though and now hes not close to a lot of people. i know its because of me. i kind of stole him away from all of them. he REALLY wants close friendships with guys again and i can tell its really bothering him. he doesnt blame me, but i do. ive been thinking maybe its best if i let him go. like that saying if you really care about someone you have to let them go. because i really think hed be happier and healthier if he went out and was on his own. hed make friends and do what made him happy and live his life. right now i feel like i really hold him back and it kills me but im so selfish because hes like all i have. but honestly, should i let him go?
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You do need to talk to him. If you are bestfriends as you say then you can talk about anything. He needs to know what's bothering you and you need to know if this situation is bothering him. If he is longing to have some guy friends then tell him its ok. Cause he needs to get that out of his system now and not when you are married...if it comes to that.
It will be worse later if he doesent get it out of his system.
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okay. Frist your not being selfish.Maybe that is what you think and that is how you feel. reality is he choice to leave or back away from his ou. loves yfriends. That goes to show that he really loves you. You should Talk to him and let him know how you really feel. i think he got so use to being with you that he thinks your his buddy.
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