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angry exboyfriend.
me and my ex have been broken up for about a week and a half.
i was realllly sad about it so i decided to go out to a party wtih my friend and one thing led to another and i made out with a guy becuase i was drunk. but im not using that as an excuse because thats no reason to.
so we started talking a couple days ago and i felt really bad so i told him and he blew up on me. he has no right to be mad right? we werent together. so he told me we are done ( even though we already were ) i think he meant done tlaking. and im like begging him and he told me hes gonna go talk to this girl that likes him and im reallly upset and i dont know what to do. im begging him and hes telling me to leave him alone that were done for good. and im like then why the hell did you eversay you love me. you obviously dont if you could say were done just like that and hes like yyup so leave me alone.
i seriously dont know what to do. i thought i was doing hte right thing by telling him. we wernet even together so i dont know why hes so angry.
what should i say to him. i want him back ! :[
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He sounds really immature and clearly he still cares for you. The fact that he got jealous and is going after a girl that likes him is a way of him trying to get under your skin. I know you want him but its best to leave him alone he's not worth the trouble nor the time. If he's going to act this way, he isn't and I'm sure you still care for him and all but I'm sure you don't want drama and that you don't want to get yourself more upset. Let him calm down and if he's being reasonable have a conversation with him...if he hasn't changed forget about him!
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and everyone says that us girls are more complicated, pshh, boys are JUST as complicated.
i know right now you probably want everything to go back to the way it was and you're also probably driving yourself insane by thinking about all the things you could have done and all the things you "should" have left unsaid to avoid this situation.. but you did the right thing. dont ever let him make you think that you didnt because youre right and hes wrong.. all you did was have a little fun [which your ALLOWED to do] and live life as a single girl.
... because you ARE single. you both broke up, which means there are no ruled.. no "dos" and "donts"; but the emotional aspect of it is still there. if it had been a week and a 1/2 after you both broke up, the feelings are still raw, and he's just hurt because he was most likely thinking that you'd be laying in your bed, crying yourself to sleep, eating buckets of icecream and wanting him back. he thought you were going to be miserable, but then you wet out and tried to move on and forget about him.. to cheer yourself up and not let this get you down in the dumps.. then you told him what happened when you went out and partied, and it probably took him by surprise.. it also made him very jealous.
i can tell you 100% that he is most definetely jealous because he tried to get back at you and hurt you by telling you that hes going to go talk to a girl that likes him.
right now, what you have to do if you want to get back on good terms again is to let him cool down and not talk to him for a little bit. by constantly trying to get in contact with him will make him even more angry [trust me] he just has to calm down and then you both can clear your heads and CALMLY work it out. and when you do wait a little, maybe a few days or so.. then just tell him the truth. tell him that you never wanted to hurt him and that if you knew doing wht you did would get him so angry, you wouldnt have done it because you both were broken up so you didnt think it was going to have such a negative impact on him and that you wish you could take it back but you cant and that you're sorry and youd like for him to keep talking to you because you miss him and you miss having him in your life and that him being angry with you and breaking up with you is hurting you more than anything.
just make it clear that you miss him. and if this doesnt work.. then just dont talk to him untl he makes the effort to talk to you. because all you can do is apologize and explain yourself, yuh know, then its up to him to decide what hes gonna do.
good luck, and dont worry, itll be okay. im sorry this is happening to you :[ hope i helped ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
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Ahh boys.
Well, he's jealous. And he's trying to make you jealous. Even though you guys broke up, he still liked you, and maybe even thought you would get back together. He did overreact and it wasn't nice of him to act like he did. Maybe he thought you were saying it just to be mean and make him feel jealous and upset?
Anyway, you didn't do anything wrong!
I think you need to just forget about this guy. He told you he's going to talk to this girl he likes because he wants to make you uspet and jealous like he is. If he's going to be rude like this then you should just let him be. I know it's hard because you want to talk to him and be friends, but he's being impossible and it's best to just leave him alone. In a while he might come back and apologise (which he should!) but it's just going to hurt you if you keep trying to talk to him.
He did love you very much, he probably still does, but we do stupid things when we're in love.
You sound like an awesome girl, and this is going to be a hard time for you, so try and hang out with your friends and the family and just try and have a good time. Leave him alone to do what he wants, he's the one missing out anyway on talking to an amazing girl like you!
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