What traits, to you, does the PERFECT GUY possess?? State all the traits you think would make up the perfect, possibly unattainable guy...
I need this for my online project :) xxx Thanks in advance
Please help! And don't leave anything out!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? millymoo answered Wednesday January 27 2010, 7:41 pm: 1. he loves you
2. he wants to spoil you
3. he's willing to do anything for you
4. he loves to cuddle you
5. always asks to see you
6. trust worthy
7. just adores you
8. can be there for you
9. respects that you have mood swings and doesnt get in your way when you do
10. doesnt make you do anything
11. takes the blame for you
12. isnt clingy
13. funny
14. can listen to you
15. give you the right advice
16. is positive
17. never lies to you
18. says your beautiful, even if you're not
19. holds your hand when walking together
20. isnt afraid to tell you what he's thinking
21. would never hurt you
22. will stand up for you
23. want you to be happy
24. says he loves you all the time
25. admits when he's wrong
26. gives you space when you need it
27. itsnt over protective
28. doesnt keep tabs on where you've been, what you've been doing, what you ate, who you were with
29. trusts you
30. you have to think he's good looking
31. always happy
32. isnt lazy
33. always helping around the house
34. friendly
35. outgoing
36. he has to have a job
37. not stupid
38. wants to try new things
39. doesnt complain about everything
40. isnt always sick
41. loves you for who you are
42. doesnt try to change who you are
43. respects your opinions
44. has a fairly nice body lol
45. doesnt worry about what he looks like
46. is patient
47. whats the best for you
48. is never nasty to you
49. doesnt ask to you to make him a sandwich haha
50. isnt a sook
Grazia answered Tuesday January 26 2010, 2:48 pm: Ok so since I'm grateful for all your inputs ... I'll give you my list, and I apologise if it comes off sounding overly superficial or idealised.. but, that's the question really haha
And..I also want to apologise for sounding overly cliche and immature but im sure you all know what I mean :)
Hmmm (in no order of preference):
1.a good listener
2.is 100% honest
3.puts you as a priority over everything
4.can be clingy, but is not obsessive
5.has charm, is collected
6.has a great fashion sense and can look good in anything he wears, but is not mainstream or emo or...well, anything like that
7. has great hair, short but not too short... and doesnt use gel, for doesnt need it
8. is also very hippie and nonchalant and laid back with an air of... supreme cool? (i cant believe i just wrote that)
9.doesnt ever check out any other girl, and doesn't flirt with girls or give them any different treatment to guys
10.is a romantic at heart and loves doing little meaningful gestures, surprises, small and big alike, especially small
11.is a simple, down to earth but also idealistic person
12.is movie-dreamy and sometimes acts like that guy we all wanted as kids
13.can make me laugh
14.has a great sense of humour
15.truly loves me
16.is caring
17.considerate
18.kind
19.patient
20.6"4
21.doesnt matter what I wear or how i look
22.tells me im the most beautiful girl and means it
23.green/brown eyes
24.has the same tastes and very similar character to me
25.treats me well
26.is chivalrous and acts like a gentleman
27.can also be my best girl and guy friend
28.encourages me to spend time with my friends, but secretly wishes i was with him all the time
29.doesnt mind talking about the future and telling me how he envisions it
30.loves adventure and doing daring things
31.loves nature and exploring
32.does not watch porn
33.loves books
34.loves music and has great musical taste
35.loves kids
36.respects me
37.is a good person
38.loves animals
39.is insanely intelligent
40.is slim, but not overbuilt
41.is dark-haired
42.is middle european with either irish or english roots
43.is very artistic and loves writing
44.has a very deep character and emotional range
45.treats you not only as an equal to his guy friends, but above and beyond
46.has an awesome name
47.makes time and goes the extra mile for me
48.doesnt think money is important and doesnt obsess over spending it
49.loves getting little gifts to show he cares
50.has high career ambitions, preferably a doctor or something of the like
51.has charisma and many friends
52.loves his mother and sister and shows it
53.is very intuitive and thoughtful
54.takes care of me
55.loves little tiny things which most guys would find insignificant or wouldnt care for
56.has the same religious beliefs, or lack thereof
57.thinks women are awesome as people
58.has non perverted friends who like me
59.has a darker, dirtier but insanely attractive side
60.is selfless and loves pleasuring me in bed over himself
61.truly prefers when im completely natural and free, rather than primped with heels and layers of make up
62.loves my body exactly the way it is, strongly discourages any alteration to it
63.has a strong opinion but respects my beliefs
64.is very open minded
65. allows me to be 100% comfortable around him even with personal or girly issues
66. plays an instrument, preferably guitar
67.always there when you need him
68. is athletic and practices a sport i also love
69. is willing to swallow his pride for me
70. loves sweeping me off my feet
I can't think of anything else right now, mainly because I don't think anyone can find a guy who fits even half of these... and yeah... I basically went to superman levels on that hahaha
Erinn_the_bamf answered Sunday January 24 2010, 2:51 pm: Alright, if we're talking unattainable perfect, I'm pulling out all the stops.
-Good hair. Either sweep-y hair or curling locks. ABSOLUTELY NO BLOW OUTS EVER.
-blue eyes
-6'0
-doesn't do drugs
-straight A's as a student
-knows who Heidegger is
-drives a BMW
-watches Scrubs and the Office
-born in Europe
-knows how to cook a five course meal
-is currently flying to Haiti to help with relief efforts
-makes $250,000+ a year
-must love dogs
-cites Ben Folds as one of his favorite musicians
-plays a musical instrument
-plays ultimate frisbee
-speaks 5 languages
-can fly planes
-good fashion sense
-perfect teeth
-hilarious
-actually thinks I'm cool
-has no criminal record
-accepts that I will be banished from the family if our wedding isn't in a Catholic church
-has taken courses in massage therapy
-knows how to dance
-loves kids
-doesn't expect me to have more than three kids
-attended an Ivy League college
-hates the Red Sox
-loves his mom
itdependsonyoux3 answered Sunday January 24 2010, 10:21 am: people say theres no such thing as perfect.. ;]
but anyways, the perfect guys, in my opinion, would include..
1. he can make you laugh.
2. hes a good listener.
3. he has a god personality.
4. hes fun.
5. he isnt a player or a guy who thinks hes the hottest crap in the world.
6. hes not arrogant.
7. looks play a part, because he has to be atractive.
8. he has to be genuine and honest.
9. he has to be intelligent.
10. gotta be natural.. no fake tans or steroid induced muscles hahaa.
11. he has a good smile and good eyes.
12. he can make you smile.
13. dresses nicely [not sloppy and gross]
14. hes considerate.
15. athletic or involved in some kind of activity.. maybe clubs; hardworking.
loveydovey224 answered Sunday January 24 2010, 9:12 am: This makes me sound really superficial but oh well at least im honest. He has to be good looking. Like tall and muscular and nice eyes and a nice smile and nice hair haha. But personality is important too. He has to be nice and able to make me laugh. He also has to be generous and have lots of money! hhahahahahah oh and a good kisser :) [ loveydovey224's advice column | Ask loveydovey224 A Question ]
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