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me, drugs, my bf


Question Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 1:43 am

20/f
I was a coke addict among other drugs but coke was a huge issue for me. I have been smoking weed since I was 11 years old.My reason is to help with depression and bipolar which I have been diagnosed with. Well I quit when I went to rehab due to drug tests. I started having horrible craving for coke again and decided that smoking would substantially curb my cravings and help relax me from the stress. My bf found out and then said he wanted to break up with me. I love him so much and he means a lot to me but smoking to me is really important. My mom said she cut down her smoking when she learned to manage her depression and she believes that I will too. I just don't know what to do about him. What do I say? I need his support right now bc I'm having an extremely rough time.


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mberg5472 answered Sunday January 24 2010, 8:33 pm:
Tell him flat out you need his support right now. My advice would be try cutting down on smoking and find a healthier solution to cope with your depression. Also, i'd visit a doctor about your depression, they maybe able to prescribe anti-depressants. I hope i was some sorta help.

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sia answered Sunday January 24 2010, 8:30 pm:
tell him not to give up on you.admit to him that you have a serious addcition due to depression that youv had since childhood.tell him that if he leaves then youll break.if your ready to get help and forget about the coke then tell him that and tell him to not give up on you because your prepared to change but you need his help and support to make it happen.

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