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18/m
There's a girl who lives in my building. I only see her probably once a week but for whatever reason I'm very attracted to her. I haven't ever spoken to her before cause the only time I see her we are going in opposite directions. I really want to talk her and see if she wants to hang out but I'm not sure how to do it without looking like a creepy stalker. Usually when I do this sort of thing, I've had some sort of relation to the girl before I ask her out. I figure I'll just ask her if she just wants to go get some coffee or a coke or something and just hang out. Any suggestions?
Thanks fellas
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Just be yourself, and try to create a friendship first. Don't try to completely impress her at first, that may be a tad on the stalkerish side as you said. :) Just smile as you walk by, and say hi a few times, and by the 3rd or 4th time just ask if she wants to go out to chat and stuff. Do it like you would with any other friendship/relationship your interested in. Hope this helped a tad! Good luck!
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its always alittle harder when youv never spoken to her...i say just smile at her to start off with...start slow then build up.say hi and then the next time you see her ask if she lives in your building (i know you already know that but use it as a starter)then ask what floor because youv only seen her recently.go from there...just show that your confident in yourself.after you both exchange a few words just be like "i dont really do this much but would you wnat to go for a drink or soemthing?"and see what she says.whatr you going to loose??nothing just go for it
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