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My issue with alcohol affecting my relationship
Posted Wednesday January 27 2010, 1:09 am
I have an issue with alcohol, no im not an alcoholic but i truly HATE alcohol. My mom is a recovering alcoholic, and ive been through so much because of alcohol. So many bad things that have happend in my life, are because of alcohol to the point where i hate anything to do with alcohol. Ive had my fair share of alcohol, but i realize i cannot drink it because i get too carried away.
Well, my boyfriend is in college and when he goes out, i get really upset. And i know he is in college, and that is what he is going to do to spend time with his friends. I know it is ridiculous for me to care so much, but i do. I bring the issues i have with alcohol into my relationship, and its a problem.
Any advice on how to co...
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Creating a relationship?
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 11:13 pm
Female 16,
So I have this guy friend and I recently have discovered that I have feelings for him, but I don't want to put myself out there and make things awkward if he doesnt have feelings for me. He also guy out of a complicated not-quite relationship with this girl back in December. He has since then said he has given up on dating. How do I make him notice me as a possible relationship?
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if i keep searching for him
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 10:37 pm
i saw a guy at a club he stared at me and asked me to dance with him and i left without even saying goodbye know i cant stop thinking of him should i stop searching for him ??let me know i need to know plese
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How do you approach the one you love?
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 9:22 pm
I like this girl that already has a boyfriend, or so i think. i really like her and we know each other a little bit. We were hosts for a play for our school and we were partners. the problem is i don't know if she is interested and i don't know how to make a great impression. what do you recommend. i would like a girl's opinion, but i am glad to listen to anyone. if you need anymore details just ask. thanks for you help. and yes i'm a guy, sorry for the confusion. i thought that if i had a girl's profile name, i could get girl's to ask me for advice,so that they would take my advice and not just ignore it.
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More than friends?
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 7:29 pm
Hi, I', 15/f (16 in april)
I've been friends with this guy since we started high school 3 years ago. We went out for about 2 months in 2007-2008 but i hardly ever saw him during that time, i tried to see him but he never showed up. So i dumped him after a while and our relationship stopped. Then last year we were put in the same classes and our realtionship started up again and we became best friends. Now i've started having feelings for him again but i don't know how he feels or if i want to act on these feelings because i don't want to jeopardize our realtionship again, and i think it might be really awkward like last time.
I'm just really confused.
What should i do?
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What should I do?
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 7:08 pm
So, I've liked a lot of guys before but never did I expect to come across one like this. He's smart. He knows that true love overlooks the little flaws. He's intelligent, witty, and very thoughtful. We've been talking every day for the past two weeks and I hear he likes to talk to me. I'm really scared though. He knows that I'm scared of getting hurt in any relationship, which is why I don't put myself out there. He's very optimistic about life while I tend to be somewhat on the negative side.
What should I do? I'm scared to like him. What if he's just being nice? What if he doesn't like me? I think I'm way in over my head?
I think I wanna cry.
Sorry for sounding so choppy. :/
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How can i deal with him?
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 5:05 pm
So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two monthss and alittle more. We've broken about 6 to 7 times. And he was only sad the first 3 times we broke up after that he made it seem like it was whatever. And he is a jerk! He always says things to me like if he doesnt value what he has but at the same time his a sweet guy and i love him alot because thats the first guy i ever really really liked and had a connection with him. Every night i cry because he makes me feel like the bad guy which am not because i always try to work things out but when i tell him about my feelingss all he says it whatever or wow bye or something immature like that. I dont wanna let him go what can i do to change the way he treats me?
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engagement ring
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 1:43 pm
Hello my boyfriend is going into the National Guards and before he goes for training he said he was going to propose to me. We've been together for about 2 years now. He was asking me questions about engagement rings and to pick out what i liked. I was looking online and some rings came with a matching wedding band. The one i really liked was just the engagement ring. Where would i get a band for it that matches the ring? Im not really how all of this goes. Would it be easier to just find a ring that came with both?
Thanks!!
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drunken hook-up with ex-boyfriend
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 1:37 pm
16/f.
The other night I was at a party and so was my ex-boyfriend. We'd hardly seen each other in a year but he's still very important to me and I care about him very much (was also my first love). Anyway, although we basically never speak anymore, we were both really drunk and upset about different things, & we were on our own & having a heart-to-heart, then we both started crying and were comforting each other. Then just suddenly we started making out & had our hands all over each other etc. It was mutual, neither one of us leaped on the other or anything.
After a while, we realised what we were doing and he told me to go. A friend of ours was stirring things up and trying to convince the other th...
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hurt by guys (all the time)
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 5:42 am
i'll try to keep this short:
me: 19/f/asian, i consider myself a decent gf/gf material.
i want to know exactly why i get screwed over by guys all the time. i get responses like, "we've grown apart" or "i think we should stop talking for a while, i need to focus on myself". i've been hurt over and over and i'm starting to think something's either wrong with me or every guy i meet just finds a way to hurt me.
so, now, i met this new guy (23, cute, asian, etc) and he's very sweet to me, jokes around, got pretty comfy with me fast. how do i know he won't hurt me like the others?
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Soul Mate?
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 1:44 am
I am 39 years old female with 3 children (ages 13, 10,& 7) from my 10 year marriage that ended about 3 years ago. I met a younger man who I really fell hard for. We had a child together. Our son is now 1. My son's father really wanted this child. This is his first child.
My ex-husband was abusive through-out our marriage, but was a good provider and he has remained very active in our children's lives after our divorce. The father of my 1 year old is unemployed and was abusive to me, so I left him. I have now seen him in 10 months. He had some problems, but he says he has changed and that he loves me and his child and that it is not right that I am keeping his child from him. My parents and my children do not like him....
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Sex Issues
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 1:07 am
I know that I probably won't get the answer I'm looking for, and I really hope my question will not be deleted. I just really need some unbiased advice on this problem.
When I have sex with my husband, I can never "finish". It lasts all of two minutes..and I'm left unsatisfied.
Could it be something to do with the fact that hes 31 and has diabetes? Or is it something we could solve more easily?
It's really starting to strain our relationship.
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uhm..
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 12:54 am
so i recently let my bf finger me... idk ive done this before and i really liked it but i dont feel right about it... was it a bad choice or not?? idk please help any advice will be great. thanks.
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mood swings
Posted Monday January 25 2010, 11:14 pm
Im 18/f. Me nad my boyfriend have been together for like a year and a half. We are going away to college next fall, but to different colleges. we plan to stay together. i just started on the birth control pills and im really stressed out because of grades and colleges and about me and my boyfriend being apart, and ive been having bad mood swings. my boyfirend gets really mad at me about them and snaps at me and we get into fights over them but i cant help it. when im stressed im always a little on edge and the hormones are too much, and i cant control them. what should i do? please help
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Boyfriend interfering with school?
Posted Monday January 25 2010, 10:54 pm
I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. 7 months so far. Honestly, it took him 3 years to get over his last gf who broke up with him. I don't want to be in this relationship anymore, he's much too needy, but I'm literally scared he'll show up at my door if I break up with him. We live in 2 different countries. I'm scared of hurting him, but I'm tired of this relationship. It's not what I want, and he tells me he loves me 24/7, but I really don't feel the same. I'm lying to him by telling him that I do.
I don't want to keep this going on any longer. He talks about marriage, and kids with me, and buying an apartment. I've only known him for 10 months!! Ahh, & to make matters worse he's interfering with my sch...
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new boyfriend
Posted Monday January 25 2010, 3:25 pm
I just recently got a new boyfriend and we were talking for about a month before we started going out. I'm already having a little issue. He doesn't seem to communicate with me enough. For example,on friday we made plans to hangout but he had to go to pickup his brother from college and he promised me he could hangout when he got back,he didn't call me or text me that whole night. On saturday,we chilled a lot of the day and all night and thats when we started going out. On sunday,he didn't text me all day and i finally texted him and he wrote back 5 hours later saying he was sleeping all day,which was understandable. Then today (monday) he just didn't come to school or tell me he wasn't coming or anything and he still hasn't texted me and i...
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is he interested?
Posted Monday January 25 2010, 11:57 am
so I finally met this guy yesetrday that I've been talking to for a while.
we talk just as friends. we flirt and send pictures to each other and stuff.
we hungout for like an hour becasue I had to be someone where.
it was me, him, his friend, and his friends gf.
they were reallly nice to me and suprisingly me and the girl got along which was great.
he taught me how to play pool and he gave me hugs and stuff.
he walked me to my car when I had to leave and he hugged me goodbye and it was seriously the best hug I've gotten in awhile. and he ssaid it was really nice to finally meet you and everyhting
i got realllly lost coming there to see him so they helped me out and when I went home he texted ...
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is he trying to make me jealous or does he not care??
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 11:51 pm
18 - female. this may be long but i'll return the favor to anyone with advice!:)
so i've liked this kid joe for a long time. i've never officially told him i liked him but we have fun together, we flirt all the time and we always have fun when we're together but i'm not sure if he likes me more than a friend or not?? he acts like it but doesn't put any moves on me. he is friends with my cousin jake, it's actually his neighbor and jakes other cousin sammy (other side of fam) has the biggest crush on joe and i don't know whats up with her and joe. when its me, my cousin jake, joe and sammy .. joe and sam like always seclude themselves and will go downstairs or something. but sam has only kissed one guy before and joes not a vir...
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How do I end it?
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 10:49 pm
Hi. I am the girl who had a question about dating an older guy online. I guess I never considered the possiblities of what could happen until now. Anyways, I want to end it because he keeps asking me to send him 'personal' pictures of myself. He seems normal, but I just don't know if I should trust him. The thing is, I don't know how to end it. I'm afraid he might get mad or something, or that I wont know what to do or say.
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why do i feel lonley if i got what i want
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 9:55 pm
gender:female
age:13
I Go out with this boy who is 16. I Really Like Him but hes to old for me. he knows my age and he is okay with it. should i corake up continue my relationship with him or brake up with him ?
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