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How do I end it?
Hi. I am the girl who had a question about dating an older guy online. I guess I never considered the possiblities of what could happen until now. Anyways, I want to end it because he keeps asking me to send him 'personal' pictures of myself. He seems normal, but I just don't know if I should trust him. The thing is, I don't know how to end it. I'm afraid he might get mad or something, or that I wont know what to do or say.
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I keep getting the impression that this guy, no matter how normal he seems, is really making you uncomfortable. That's reason enough for you to stop talking.
And when I say 'stop talking' I mean just that. You don't need to send him an email explaining why you can't talk to him. If he emails you, you don't need to respond. You don't know him, you don't owe him anything. Sorry if I sound cruel... But if a guy EVER makes you uncomfortable, I suggest you try to put as much distance between the two of you as soon as possible.
If he continues to email you and the content of those emails become abusive in any way... Do not respond. Message me if you have any further questions :)
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Heyy! Yeah, figuring out how to end it is hard when he's a stranger or even if you know the guy. And its good you haven't sent him any pictures of yourself cause that could be dangerous. You just just tell him that you don't really know him and don't feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone met online.
He'll probably try to convince you that he's a good guy or that you have a connection but you just need to stand your ground. You can just politely say it makes you uncomfortable and if you are a good guy you wouldn't want me to do something i'm not comfortable with and thank him for understanding. Hopefully he will understand and he'll stop e-mailing you.
If you have any more problems let me know!:)
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