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hurt by guys (all the time)
i'll try to keep this short:
me: 19/f/asian, i consider myself a decent gf/gf material.
i want to know exactly why i get screwed over by guys all the time. i get responses like, "we've grown apart" or "i think we should stop talking for a while, i need to focus on myself". i've been hurt over and over and i'm starting to think something's either wrong with me or every guy i meet just finds a way to hurt me.
so, now, i met this new guy (23, cute, asian, etc) and he's very sweet to me, jokes around, got pretty comfy with me fast. how do i know he won't hurt me like the others?
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its life hun! men can be like this..strange breed lol..i have a kind of similar situation apart from the guys that seem interested in me and have my number act as though they want a relationship or a date when really they want sex and they give me all the "im different" crap...but trust me just take your time and you WILL find a guy who likes you and wants to stick with you..their is NOTHING wrong with you at all you are your own person and you will find a guy who likes you for you...even you could question this guy that your seing at the moment see what he says..but i wouldnt worry too much about this...hope i helped in some way! good luck x
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There are no guarantees in life.
The moment you let someone get close, you are risking they might hurt you, betray you, reject you... You could go and and live like a hermit in a cave someplace, or you can take that risk.
Mimize the risk by using the experience your life has given you, and look for similar patterns, to see if history might repeat itself with this guy. Don’t invest yourself too quickly in something new. Keep your head above water and don’t dive into too much emotional commitment until you know you are both on the same page.
The simple truth of the universe is that all relationships will end, until the one that doesn’t.
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