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How can i deal with him?
So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two monthss and alittle more. We've broken about 6 to 7 times. And he was only sad the first 3 times we broke up after that he made it seem like it was whatever. And he is a jerk! He always says things to me like if he doesnt value what he has but at the same time his a sweet guy and i love him alot because thats the first guy i ever really really liked and had a connection with him. Every night i cry because he makes me feel like the bad guy which am not because i always try to work things out but when i tell him about my feelingss all he says it whatever or wow bye or something immature like that. I dont wanna let him go what can i do to change the way he treats me?
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You can't. You've broke up 6 or 7 times already. If he were going to make a big change, or even cared, he'd have done so by now.
You see, you love this jerk. He knows it. He is taking advantage. He makes you feel everything bad about the relationship is your fault. Hes mentally
abusive.
My advice is to break up with him and look elsewhere for a boyfriend. It will take time to get over this, but you will. When you do you will look back and wonder why you put up with it.
He doesn't care about your feelings. He is not going to change.
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You teach people how you want to be treated. to me this guy sounds like he isnt good for you, and you deserve better. You say you dont wanna let him go, so next time he treats you badly break it off with him until he finally realizes that you are serious. And when i say break it off, i mean ignore his calls/texts everything. And also, tell him you deserve to be treated better.
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