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Do i really need him?
So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two monthss and alittle more. We've broken about 6 to 7 times. And he was only sad the first 3 times we broke up after that he made it seem like it was whatever. And he is a jerk! He always says things to me like if he doesnt value what he has but at the same time his a sweet guy and i love him alot because thats the first guy i ever really really liked and had a connection with him. Every night i cry because he makes me feel like the bad guy which am not because i always try to work things out but when i tell him about my feelingss all he says it whatever or wow bye or something immature like that. I dont wanna let him go what can i do to change the way he treats me?
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wow hey,its apparent that he doesn't love you or care about you, and i'm saying this for your own good, he doesn't seem like he has major feelings for you and that he wants to be with you, and it doesn't have to do anything with you or that there is something wrong with you, or even in him, but sometimes people just lose interest or eventually grow apart, it comes by time. And what you are doing here, is that you are wasting your time and your dignity and respect pretty much. Because you are giving him feelings and a lot of your time which he doesn't deserve and doesn't give you anything in return. And i know how it must feel that he's the first one, and that you really like him, but baby you have to let go, and you know what, maybe when you finally let go for good, he's gonna start feeling that he really did lose something valuable and he's gonna regret it, and who knows, maybe HE'LL come running after you and wanting you back. Just don't stoop down to anyone or run after anyone, he either loves you as much as you love him and he's there and he cares, or either just back out cause this is apparently a one-sided relationship, and why on earth would you do this to yourself and cry every night, for someone who probably while your crying is doing whatever somewhere and not caring, i mean, if he doesn't care when you are with him, i'm sure he wouldn't care when you are not together. So really girl you deserve better and you deserve someone who would love you and give you back feelings as much as you give him, and there are many other guys to come, this is definitely not the one. And when you meet others later on, you'll look back at this, and laugh or feel immature or not care or say he's an a-hole, and right then, you will have someone else and you'll be happy, and he'll care, and he won't make you cry. Cause crying every night over someone, that's not called love, at all. Think about this and reconsider.
If you need anything else, please be free to contact me.Best of luck!
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DUMP HIS ASS.
Don't let it get too far, believe me, you will be stuck in a horrible relationship, always being miserable, scared to open up to him properly in fear of what he will do/say.. do I need to go on?
He's clearly not the right person for you, especially if you're calling him a jerk and listing bad things about him.
You've only been together around 2 months and broken up all those times - read the signs and don't be so naive.
Relationships make you happy, not depressed.
You cannot change a person, if that's who he is, then I'm sorry, but that's who he will always be.
You've spoke to him about it and it's done no good...
Find someone who deserves you and makes you feel special.
I know it's hard because he's the first person you've liked etc, but believe me, there will be plenty more.
Let this be a bit of experience. Don't take shit from anyone, especially stupid boyfriends.
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You can't really control how someone treats you. You can only control how long you will put up with it.
Its pretty obvious that this relationship is not a good one. You have broke up 6 or 7 times in just a little more than 2 months? That is not a good sign.
You may see a little sweetness in him, but it sure won't make up for his being a jerk most of the time.
You care and he doesn't really. You would be much better off finding that special guy for you. I'm afraid this guy isn't the one.
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