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age difference confused
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 5:29 pm
I am in desperate need of advice. I am a 17 year old girl and I'll be 18 in May. I really like this boy but he is 14 years old and will only be 15 in October. My mom just found out and she told me that it's up to me, but it'll be against the law when i turn 18, i could go to jail if something goes wrong and someone in his family wants to start trouble. Honestly, yes, the age gets to me sometimes, but he acts so much older even with his friends, but he is 14 and my brother is 12, it's weird when i think about it, but when im with him, its amazing, and he is so sweet to me and shares what he feels unlike other guys. I also wonder does he think im amazing, and sweet, and everything he says about me just because im older them him, is he infatua...
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when push comes to shove
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 5:17 pm
whenever my "lovely" boyfriend and i make plans a few days before it never happens... and its frustrating and he says it me all the time... but when he comes home im always dressed waiting then he tells me how nice i look and asks me if we can go tomorrow... in my world tomorrow never comes and it never will... do you think he is just embrassed to be with me in public? we dont do nothing together never.... somedays i dont even see us with a future... should i even wait to see if things change
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I think I may be...
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:59 pm
Okay so I'm 22/F and I'm in a relationship with a 24/M. I think I maybe bi...and I'm curious to maybe starting dating a girl or hooking up with a girl. My boyfriend says he doesn't mind it. Are there any websites to meet girls who are into hooking up with girls in a relationship? Or where could I meet a girl who would be interested in something like this. Any advice? Has anyone felt this way? Please share your experience! Thanks!
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grr! >:o
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:17 pm
so i am majorly in love with this guy! he's the only one i wanna be with.. i told him i loved him and he didnt say it back.. which i didnt expect him to. but the thing about him is that he isnt very open about his feelings and i am obviously! how do i get him to open up to me? i really wanna be with him!!! :( thanks..
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feeling sick when we go farther?
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 2:55 pm
17/f
I don't know why this happens to me. but me and this guy like each other. we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend yet but we definitely have potential. anyways, we hang out a few times. and we have fun a lot. A few times, we will even kiss and make out. Out of like the 20 times we hung out, we've gotten pretty frisky like 4 times. Here's my problem, when we do go pretty far.. I always get this sick feeling in my stomach. Like I have to throw up. You know how right before you throw up, you get that sour feeling in your mouth? and like a bunch of saliva in your mouth? That's how i feel when we make out a bunch and get really into it. I don't know why this happens?
Its like whenever it happens, I have to tell him ...
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break up/friendship
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 11:59 am
Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up about a week ago.He broke up with me because "i was too overwhelming and a lot for him to handle" and ofcourse i was clingy.We were together all the time,cuddling,talking,making food,jokes,sleeping,just doing everything.I did EVERYTHING for him.I bought him everything,drove him around,just everything.He always held my hand,called me "baby",just did all cute boyfriend stuff and then on one day..he randomly broke up with me.We were perfectly fine (so i thought) and did it randomly .I was devastated.He went on vacation for like 6 days and we didnt speak one word because he thought I hated him.He came back last night and was texting my friend (a boy) and asked him what he's doing and stuf...
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does he like me?
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:38 am
13/f
okayy well i sit next to this guy in science and i think hes cute..hes always makin me laugh and we argue over everything but just teasing..whenever i turn to him i catch him lookin at me and then turning away to talk to some other guy..he smiles alot whenever he sees me and i smile a lot when i see him...do u think he likes me??
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ex...me..then ex again....
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 3:15 am
So my gf left me for her ex. About 2 weeks after that she started textin me and finally asked me to come hang out. So I did and ended up staying 2 nights. Had great sex, she told me she did have sex with her ex but pictured my face, knows she made a big fuck up, would do anything in the world to have me back in her life that we could and would make it together this time so I was gonna give her another chance but I needed time to get her trust back. She didnt understand what the wait was for and felt I was givin her the run around. I wanted to tell her the day after i left there in person i did wanna try again, but she went to her exs house and stayed the night. she said you expect me to wait on you forever im gonna be with her i just think ...
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guys with girlfriends..
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 2:29 am
18/f
okay so this has really been bugging me and i was hoping you guys could give me some insight. not trying to sound conceited at ALL, just what i've heard .. alot of guys think i'm this hot girl and i am confident but i'm not a slut. i don't sleep around, still a virgin but why is it that guys with girlfriends ALWAYS try to talk and get with me? i don't understand!! do they think i'll cheat with them on their girlfriends or what? why me? it always happens to me, always. i'm just concerned i have something about me saying "i'll sleep with you even if you have a girlfriend" which is obviously not the case, and i haven't given anyone a reason to think that but i think it's ironic how guys who have girlfriends are always trying to get with me... why??
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This Boy...
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 1:41 am
ok, so i am in 8th grade, and my friend told me that there is this boy that has a crush on me. i had never really looked twice at him before, not that i ignored him, or anything. he was always sweet and funny and easy to talk to. but, i never really thought of him like that.. however, now that i know he likes me, i am starting to think twice.. my friend said he was going to ask me out, but i don't know what to do.. should i say yes?
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confused about my bestfriends feelings tword me
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 1:39 am
13/f
today was cold and i didnt have a jacket..i guess i looked frozen during lunch because my best friend(guy) walked up to me,kissed me on the cheek,draped his jacket over my arms,said \"here looks like u need this\" gave me my favorite smile and walked away.i thought it was really sweet so later i saw him and he looked cold so i walked up to him, kissed him on the cheek, said \"thanks but i think you need it now\" smiled and walked away..he ran after me and was like i can share this and gave me a hug....im not really sure if were goin out or not because usually people dont kiss people unless their goin out so..any ideas whats happining???
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Falling in love with my pastor
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 12:32 am
I've had a major crush on my pastor. I met with him for advice spirtual he was advising me but also flirting with me via eye contact!!! He also walked me to the car when it was done! I've been thinking about him ever since!!! I want to tell him how I feel but yet I'm scared!!! I need some advice
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Sudden feelings.
Posted Thursday April 1 2010, 3:36 pm
All right , there's this boy who likes me or used to like me. When I found out that he liked me , I told people I didn't like him. We don't talk to each other AT ALL. All of a sudden I start liking him. & He gets a girlfriend. He still stares at me like he still likes me. What do I do ?
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high school -> college
Posted Thursday April 1 2010, 1:45 am
My boyfriend & I are starting college this fall. But, (we haven't picked schools yet) chances are our colleges are going to be hundreds of miles apart.
My dilemma: I have no idea what the hell we're going to do when we have to live in different states. I don't know if i'm going to be able to put up with a long distance relationship. It's not that I don't want us to be together, I just don't think I'll take the time apart well. What can I do? Do long-distance relationships EVER work out? How much more work are they?
Also, how can I talk to my boyfriend about this without it sounding like a sugarcoated version of "i dont' think we'll last past high school"?
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3 1/2 years
Posted Thursday April 1 2010, 1:01 am
Hey all.. very long but a bit confused.
I'm 18/f and my boyfriend is 21.
We started dating in high school. I was 15 and he was 17. We broke up in june bc he was being mean to me, so i wanted a break, got back together, but broke up again. Lately I have been feeling like I want to be an 18 year old girl. We never had any other serious relationships, so how do we truly know if we want each other for ever? I dont want to hear I am too young to be thinking about this, but I want to know now so i didnt waste my teens years of just having fun, or if he is it, hes my "one"
At times I feel like im married and I mean, I have the rest of my life to be married. I talked to him about this and he ev...
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life..
Posted Thursday April 1 2010, 12:26 am
So in a nutshell my spring break sucks.My parents both lost their jobs and we have had barely enough money to eat and get gas. We're in debt with so many family members and friends .On top of that ,my boyfriend broke up with me 4-5 days ago and went on vacation .so ive basically been a mental wreck.Crying as soon as I wake up because we barely have money to get by and because im missing my boyfriend who helped me with money when he could and obviously made me happy without money.I feel guilty because ive been using the gas in my car to pickup friends,go to the beach,drive around at night..just to get me out of the house so i don't focus on my ex boyfriend.What's something less expensive I could do to just get my mind off my ex and money? be...
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How can I get time for myself?
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 11:33 pm
Ok, so (Male, 18) I just got off the phone with my girlfriend after an hour-long argument that was about nothing more than my leaving her house to go home and finish a four page English paper and do some college stuff that needed to be finished.
I was over there just hanging out, cooking some bars with her and I suddenly found out that I had to finish some college things before 5 o'clock and, in addition, i had to revise an English assignment and my math assignment.
We had plans to be together all day, but my teacher bumped the deadline up to tomorrow during school today, so i changed plans a little so i would probably leave around 6 or so, that way I'd have time to finish it. When I told her this, it just abou...
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i like my bestfriend hes a guy ima girl
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 10:31 pm
im 13 year old girl and my best friend is a guy and im starting to like him....my friend(thats a girl) told me that he txted her and asked if i liked him...she hasnt given him an answer but he told her that he was gonna ask me out...i dont noe wat to do cuz i dont wanna ruin are frienship if the relationship goes bad...HELP!!
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Crush, erm might he like me as well?
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 9:12 pm
Well I like this boy.
A younger boy actually, he's in grade 10, I am in grade 11. So he sits next to me in class. For the longest time we sat away from eachother and I also had a boyfriend last year so even though I thought this boy was cute, I never really made an effort. So lately I've started talking to him and making friendly conversation. Now it seems as though we've become closer. :) The other day he walked into class and had a smile on his face and I was already sitting down. I looked up at him and he gave me a big "hey!" and I said hey back. Then the girl sitting next to me looked up as well because she had been sitting there the whole time. Realizing that he hadn't said hi to her, he quickly said "oh, hey.&qu...
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So confused?!
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 7:30 pm
I was with my boyfriend for 1 year and a bit, he broke up with me last week on Tuesday. Then, the day after, we spoke and he said he just wants to call this a break and he already missed me and the only time he was happy that day was when he was talking to me. He then said he needs a few weeks to decide if we're going to get back together or not. Sunday night he was being a bit off with me (we decided to still be as close friends and we have been) so I said to him "It seems as if you've already made your decision" and he said he had. And that he doesn't want to get back together. Then, Monday and Tuesday night we just had such a good conversation on msn, like on Monday it was for about 5 hours non stop, only a few hours on Tuesday...
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