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ex...me..then ex again....
So my gf left me for her ex. About 2 weeks after that she started textin me and finally asked me to come hang out. So I did and ended up staying 2 nights. Had great sex, she told me she did have sex with her ex but pictured my face, knows she made a big fuck up, would do anything in the world to have me back in her life that we could and would make it together this time so I was gonna give her another chance but I needed time to get her trust back. She didnt understand what the wait was for and felt I was givin her the run around. I wanted to tell her the day after i left there in person i did wanna try again, but she went to her exs house and stayed the night. she said you expect me to wait on you forever im gonna be with her i just think its for the best and I do love and care for her. This was a week ago. She just now put on her myspace shes in a relationship and like 2 pics of her ex and one of them kissing. I left her a comment that said never let go of us, she hasnt deleted it and I am still on her top friends list. I do wanna be with her in time but what should I do? Not to mention her ex kicked her out of the house and if it wasnt for family shed be homeless.
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I agree with the previous person's advice. It doesn't make any sense to try and be in a relationship with a person like this girl who obviously has no clue about what she wants. She has disrespected you to the max and I don't understand why it is that you are still around allowing her to treat you this way. You seriously need to cut your losses and move on. If you stick around, you will only regret it later....I can guarantee you that. Sorry if this is not what you want to hear, but it is the truth.
and I know that was you who inboxed me but you can't be angry at other ppl for telling you the truth. If you don't want to know, don't ask or get the hell over it. Beating a dead horse will get you nowhere. That you even have to ask our advice on this scenario is pretty sad.
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Am I wrong or is this the third time you've posted this question. You're clearly not getting the advice you "want" to hear. If you are determined to undermine yourself, your self-esteem, and your future by giving yourself to a girl who keeps giving herself to other girls, then at least own that decision, but don't keep looking for people here to validate your choice. Its a bad relationship. Get out or accept that you are too weak to move on. Either way, I don't think you're getting what you want from us here.
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It's pretty clear that not only had your ex betrayed you but you two ended up having sex and she left you in the shit hole and crawled BACK to her ex and you want her back?!!? Listen kiddo, She seemingly made up her mind, She went back to him for the second time. Sounds like someone who likes nothing but mind games and is a little on the immature side. Why you want her back, Good lord the ocean is full of fish.. and you want to wheel in a shark?
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