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This Boy...
ok, so i am in 8th grade, and my friend told me that there is this boy that has a crush on me. i had never really looked twice at him before, not that i ignored him, or anything. he was always sweet and funny and easy to talk to. but, i never really thought of him like that.. however, now that i know he likes me, i am starting to think twice.. my friend said he was going to ask me out, but i don't know what to do.. should i say yes?
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if you didn't like him before or look at him twice.. then you probably honestly don't have romantic feelings for him.
I think the only reason why you're thinking twice about him now is because you know he likes you. and you're just happy that he likes you. before, you didn't have a clue that he liked you, and you didn't like him. but now that you know he likes you, you like him.
you're just liking him because he likes you, got it?
The way i see it, you can do 2 things. Either
A. you be friends with him and test the water out. Go on a few dates and see if you like him and want to spend more time with him.
or
B. say no because you didn't have any feelings for him to begin with. But here's the catch, your feelings for him could change in the future. so stay friends with him just in case they change.
I'm not going to make the decision for you. You need to decide what you want to do . Good luck!
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if u really like him and are comfortable being around him the yea...but if you really dont like him that way then dont hurt him..he sounds like a sweet guy so if you say no let him down gently because you might change your mind later ;)
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