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3 1/2 years
Hey all.. very long but a bit confused.
I'm 18/f and my boyfriend is 21.
We started dating in high school. I was 15 and he was 17. We broke up in june bc he was being mean to me, so i wanted a break, got back together, but broke up again. Lately I have been feeling like I want to be an 18 year old girl. We never had any other serious relationships, so how do we truly know if we want each other for ever? I dont want to hear I am too young to be thinking about this, but I want to know now so i didnt waste my teens years of just having fun, or if he is it, hes my "one"
At times I feel like im married and I mean, I have the rest of my life to be married. I talked to him about this and he even said he isnt sure if i'm "the one" and Im thinking if he thinks that too, then why dont we take a break to really find this out?
What is hard is we work together, 5 days a week at the time same, bc we work for my mom. I WILL see him.
My questions are, what do you guys think? Am I too young to be in such a long relationship, and if I do want to take a break/break up how will I do this?
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You are not to young I am 18 and married to a 23 year old I have three children (two of my own and a step son) I dont hate it by all means i love my family and my family. although I wish i was able to go to college. I wish my husband got alone time with out kids once in a while but its not easy. and your so young if you are feeling its not right dont force it to work out. keep an open mind youll marry this guy and relize its not right if you are having these thoughts ecspecially both of you.. but when you break up you can worry about who he might be dating whos he talking to who shows up at work to see him. etc. and i assume when most girls find out he works with his ex they wont want much to do with him. you can still be friends just dont worry about who you are both seeing.
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I can relate! I once dated a guy that was a few years older and we were constantly on and off. And from my experience and what most people who go through on again/off again relationships say, it's probably not right. Offer to just take a break for a few weeks (since you'll still see each other at work, just stop seeing/talking to him outside of that) Still be polite to him at work though, to avoid hard feelings. If you miss dating him after a few weeks, give it another shot. But while you're apart, make sure to flirt with other guys a little so you know what else is out there!
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