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feeling sick when we go farther?
17/f
I don't know why this happens to me. but me and this guy like each other. we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend yet but we definitely have potential. anyways, we hang out a few times. and we have fun a lot. A few times, we will even kiss and make out. Out of like the 20 times we hung out, we've gotten pretty frisky like 4 times. Here's my problem, when we do go pretty far.. I always get this sick feeling in my stomach. Like I have to throw up. You know how right before you throw up, you get that sour feeling in your mouth? and like a bunch of saliva in your mouth? That's how i feel when we make out a bunch and get really into it. I don't know why this happens?
Its like whenever it happens, I have to tell him to stop and I get a drink of water and try to calm myself down, but it doesn't really go away. I don't think it's because i'm nervous.. because I'm never nervous around guys. especially him. I always feel myself around him. Help!
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Your body and your subconscious are telling you that you are not ready and are not comfortable with how far you have gone. It is a signal to stop what you are doing. when you are ready, really redy to go further your body and subconscious will stop sending you this signal.
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How are you guys kissing like is it realy messy mabe its just that and I'm sure its nothing wrong just try to not be so sloppy when you kiss him and mabe that will help your problem good luck with that.
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The only thing i can think of is... maybe you arent ready to go as far as you are going with him. I personally haven't had this problem but a friend of mine has had one in the past similar to this situation. She just moved slower with him and when they finally went further with sexual stuff, she didnt have the problem anymore.
HOPE THIS HELPS A BIT :]
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