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Confused
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 8:02 pm
if you saw your husband sending messages to other girls lets say thru facebook or myspace etch and he wrote "hey bby let me get your aim or msn,your a cutie" while being with you would you get mad?? but without him knowin you check his thing .
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Is it love or lust?
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 6:24 pm
When you've loved someone and have waited for them for seven years straight(continue to)--would this be considered as love or lust?
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Prom?
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 6:14 pm
Ok, here's the deal. My boyfriend and I (we're both 17 and juniors) have been dating for 4 months... well, it'll be 5 months by the time prom rolls around. We really love each other and we both think that prom might be fun to go to. However, there are some complications. Firstly, people say that if you go to your junior prom it completely takes away the value of your senior prom. Is that true? Secondly, right around prom is a festival in my hometown that I look forward to attending all year long. I go almost every year and always have a really amazing time. Here's the problem though: I don't have a job and the festival's really pricey (usually $100+) and it takes me most of the year to save up for it. So, as you can probably see, I'd have t...
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Should I end long distance relationship?
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 5:54 pm
I usually give advice to other people about this kinda stuff, but I currently I've found myself in a difficult situation that I could use some other opinions on.
I'm a guy in my early 20's that's been dating a girl for a little over half a year. The problem is she lives in another country, and I met her when I went abroad for half a year. The last two months we've been apart. I feel like she really is happy with the relationship, but I personally am not because of the long distance and some other reasons. I know it's selfish, but the reason I'm still with her is that I don't want to feel the loneliness of not having someone care about me in that way. I feel like even though I'm not happy with it that I would hurt her a lot by en...
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What a mess I'm in
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 5:30 pm
Ok here goes. I'm a 26 year old female. I've been threw a lot of relationships that failed. And for a couple of years now I've been on my own. Lonely and quite miserble and I'm currently trying to peice my life back togeather. So about three weeks ago I met a guy at a bar, he was much older than myself ten years to be exact so I thought wow a refresher. Usually I date always date guys around my own age... So I was instantly drawn in to this guy. So we talked on the phone and he took me out to eat so... I taught it was cool. It has been a while since I've really been out with a guy. So after the date we started talkng he invited me to hs home and we were intimate. Big mistake to soon and my feelings for him instanstly started to multiply I ...
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conversation with my ex.
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 5:05 pm
him: hi
me: hi..
him: how have you been
me: greattt. you?
him: good. why have you been great?
me: haha idkk?
him: oh are you still talking to that guy
me: me and him are straight. were friends and stufff
him: oh that's good. do you miss me?
me: yeah.
him: can I have a pic
me: no.
him: why
me: cause I never got one that one time and you always randomly start talking to me and expect to get wahtever you want
(he then sent me one of him)
him: I haven't had my phone. I awlasy lose it and you know that
me: yeah.
him: I just sent you a pic
me: I know.
him: whatever bye
me: what?
him: your being gay
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my ex boyfriend....i kno its long but its important
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 3:07 pm
hi im sixteen in tenth grade and my ex is sixteen in eeventh .ok so i dated my ex boyfriend for lik a month or two and then he told me he was still n love with his ex so we slpit...we attend thasame skul and after a while we started tlking again by tht time he had apoligized about ha whole situation...recently weve been hangin out and ove had a ball and ivetold him tht i can onli see us as friends but he doesnt and is still trying tu b wit me he buy me things treats me rite he really thinks im perfect but i jus cant see us being tugether and no matter how hard i try he wont get tha pic tht i dont like him n tht way nemore...but i really dont kno howw tu get out of this situation..hes oo sweet andi cant hurt him...once again ive tried TELLIN...
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me and my bf
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 2:50 am
15/f
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months. It was completely fine. But I did end up liking another guy. I didn't let that get to me because I know that happens sometimes and I'd rather be with my bf. He is the best to me and actually cares.
But one of my friends, who is one of his friends is really close with me. We talk all the time. He tells me what a horrible boyfriend I have because he doesn't talk to me as much as he did before and that he treats me better than my own boyfriend. Honestly, he is a good friend and all, but its killing me because in a way the things he says is true but I don't want to leave him.
Recently I found out my boyfriend likes another girl too. My fri...
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Interested or just fouling around???
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 2:08 am
My ex and i have resently started talking again. One day hes completely into me and the next he talks to me as a mutal friend. Hes always around and i find myself looking for him.
How can i get over him? and see what his true feelings towards me are?
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So it seems as though...
Posted Sunday April 4 2010, 7:30 pm
My ex boyfriend is trying to piss me off.He broke up with me about 8 days ago (the past 8 days have been a wreck for me) but we are on good friend terms and have hung out since the break up and have been fine. I still like him SOOO much but I have been trying not to show it. After a party the other day ,we all came back to my house..my ex included.They all ended up sleeping over and my ex tried to hookup with me (yes he was drunk) but he tried to make MAJOR moves on me.I stopped him ofcourse.The last few nights ,he will text my friend Greg and see what he's doing (my ex full well knows that im with greg because hes my best friends boyfriend ) and will end up showing up to wherever me and my friends are at. but will not call me or text me to...
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too young for me?
Posted Sunday April 4 2010, 6:02 pm
i have this boyfriend and he's pretty sweet but he liks doing sexual stuff. he knows i'm a virgin and that i want to wait but he still wants to do things like oral and stuff. i'm pretty sure he likes me because he texts me all of the time and we talk about alot of things, not just sexual. infact we barely ever talk sexual, but when we're together he always wants to after we start making out and stuff. but i guess thats normal right? anyways i'm 18 and he's 17 but i'm scared he might be too young for me and especilly since girls mature faster than guys. do you guys think i should stay with him? any opinions would be awesome, thankss.
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What is on his mind?
Posted Sunday April 4 2010, 3:38 am
My ex and i have been on and off.
The first time we dated we went to the same school but slowly drifted apart. we broke up then later i moved to my mothers house, he asked me out again and i said ok, but it was long distance and i never really got to see him.All was good until one night he sent me a message saying "i dont know why i asked you out again but i 100% dont have feelings for you anymore". I was crushed.
Im now back at my dads and we are both attending the same school again. He said he was sorry and i forgave him. I still like him, but hate myself for it. One day hes really nice then the next he hardly talks to me. What should i do? His parties coming up and i heard he was going to invite me should i go?...
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Why am I scared having sex with my husband?
Posted Sunday April 4 2010, 12:47 am
It started almost three years ago. I went to the doctors for an itchy problem that was not going away. As it turned out, I had trich. The doctor stated someone has been messing around. I asked him that my husbands ex had it in 1993, was it possible it had stayed dormant before it infected me? He didn"t answer. Then last Oct, I had a pap smear, it came normal, with the HPV virus too. I was terrified! Since vfinding this oput, I've lost interest in sex. I"m too afraid of catching anything. Since Oct, we have had sex 5 times. Am I wrong to feel this way?
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kinda scared of wat she is doing
Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 11:45 am
I have a new girlfriend like im kinda scared cause my ex told me she loved me b4 and she will never cheat on me but she did so like its very hard 4 me to trust my new girlfriend because of what happened with my ex but i really really love my new girlfriend but i always question her about like do she like dis or that boy or is she doing something she doesnt suppose to(cheating) and i really dont like her to go out cause i think she would cheat on me and then it scares me cause like she is not a virgin and her cousin is like always trying to make her do stuff like drink and i dont like her to drink cause who knows what would she do when shes drunk what if she sleep with another guy :( so she stopped i really love her i just really want to tru...
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big ex boyfriend issues
Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 11:31 am
My boyfriend broke up with me 7 days ago because i was to clingy and he felt like he had "had enough of me " for a while .He went on vacation for 4-5 days and didnt speak a word to me.He came back 2 nights ago and we hungout the night before,and last night..because he asked to hangout with my friend (a guy) and i was there because he's like my best friend.We got along good and talked out our problems and agreed to be reallly goood friends.Ofcourse I still like him,but if he doesn't want any more then friends is better than nothing.We had no reason to "hate eachother" and whatnot because our break up wasn't a nasty one.Last night,he had his brother call me to see where me and my friends were.They came to the party we were...
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Can i stay in america if i marry him?
Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 6:24 am
I'm 19, and planning on moving to America. I'm going there for someone who i know very well that i met online(but never in person) and i want to know, how can i go about doing it? Before i go, do i need a working visa? or can i tell them the truth, that i met a man online and i want to be with him in america? Also, If i'm planning on going there to marry him, do i even need a working visa? a friend told me if i tell customs or whoever the truth about how we've only met online, that they might not let me into America. Is that true? I'm Australian, and I really need to get there and live there so i can be with him, and of course, i'd be living with him. so tell me, how does all this work?
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the guy i likes number
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 9:10 pm
13/f
okayy...well today i got a txt message from my friend telling me that the guy i kinda like likes me back..a while back he asked her for my # but i told her not to give it to him cuz i was kinda nervous..but now i REALLY wanna talk to him over spring break but i dont have his number...should i ask him for it..or what....any suggestions on what i should do??
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single girl now wants mr right
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 8:30 pm
I'm in college and have had many relationships in the past. I've loved and lost like everyone else, but I have taken it far to the point where I'm very closed off and barely let anyone near my heart. Everyone knows me as the independent single girl. It's started to bother me now, because I really want a boyfriend, or just a guy to confide in and have fun with. I'm never the girl that complains "I'm lonely", but honestly, I am now. I'm trying to open myself up, but my friends say I come off as very unapproachable. How can I get guys to see me as open and friendly? I smile more now and try to be more talkative, but still the feedback I get is that I'm cold and look like I don't want to be bothered, even though it's untentional. (20/F)
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My Best Guyfriend.
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 7:28 pm
17/f.
There's this guy whom I've known since 8th grade. We are really close, but no one really knows because we primarily talk online since we never see each other in school. He used to like me for a long time in 8th grade, but I didn't like him like that, but we've stayed really close friends.
For years though, we've been playing the question game, and it's gotten really intense. I've never thought of it as more than a game since we've never done anything in person or via webcam / pictures. I think I may have recently developed a tiny crush on him though, and this is bad for a couple reasons.
1. We are going to be hanging out this upcoming weekend and I don't want my hormones to get the bes...
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does age really make a difference?
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 6:25 pm
I am a 17 year old girl and i am interested in a younger boy, he is 14. Believe me, i know it sounds bad but if you knew how he treated me, you might understand. The thing is i will be 18 in the month of may, and he will only be 15 in October. Also, it's weird to think, my brother is 12 and the boy i'm interested in is 14. He acts very mature for his age, even with his friends!... and looks like he is 17 or 18. One person that I've talked to about it said he might be infatuated by a pretty older girl that has come his way. Honestly, if that were true, he might have just made a move on me already and he hasn't. My mother mentioned that it's illegal when i turn 18 and if i pissed off anyone in the family, they could turn it into a legal manne...
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