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I kissed a 21 year old..
Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 4:48 pm
14/f
Yesterday, I went to this street festival where their was live music in Chicago. I was dancing and talking to this cute guy who looked 16-17. Later on we started grinding and just having fun. When I had to leave I kissed him and he gave me his number. We were texting and I decided to ask him his age. Turns out he's 21! So I lied and said I was 17 (I've been told I could pass for 17). He says he wants to see me again but I don't think that will happen since I was just in the city for the weekend. It was all in good fun but I feel kind of weird now.. I know we won't be like a thing and probably won't ever see each other again.
I know it's illegal since I'm a minor but what would you do if you were in my si...
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I screwed up and asked a question on here
Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 3:23 pm
I asked a question on here and my girlfriend saw it. She was upset about the question I wrote regarding a friend in first person. I just sent her proof that it really was my friend's first words. I just asked on advicenators because I wanted to give the friend great advice but I wasn't very knowledgeable on the subject. I did give her advice though without waiting for an answer from here. I researched on the internet for great advice. Now my girlfriend wants nothing to do with me. I thought she was referring to the question I wrote about her not being able to compromise, and me not being able to have friends while in a relationship with her and all those factors were affecting my health: physically and mentally. I said on here that I couldn...
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i'm cheating and i want to stop.
Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 1:49 pm
i've been seeing this other guy for about a month, but we've only hung out once, which was yesterday. most of our "relationship" has been through text and facebook.
my boyfriend was neglecting me and i needed affection, which this other guy offered to me. i thought i could do it without feeling bad about it. but after hanging out with him yesterday, i realized i cant. all we did was kiss and stuff but it felt wrong, the whole time. i went home and felt shitty as hell. i couldnt sleep last night, which, if you know me that's really odd. usually i'm tired all the time. i was tired last night i just couldnt sleep, i was wracked to the roof with guilt.
my only problems now are leaving the other guy and co...
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I like a boy, but my mom and dad are kind of iffy on the age thing :/
Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 12:17 pm
So im 17 and the guy i like is 21. In elementary school my big brother and him were best friends and we hung out all the time, but we never really talked ya know! In middle school and high school they drifted apart. Theyre finally graduated now(of course) and he is still my NEIGHBOR!!! We just recently started talking, and hanging out a few times. I never stop smiling when were together, and he kissed me for the first time the other day. =) My parents know that i like him. They have never seen me so happy with anyone like i am with him. All of the sudden, they told me i couldnt go anywhere with him. I love it that my parents are looking out for me. but they know him, and they tell me all the time that they know he is a good guy. and sexual ...
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Worth waiting?
Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 1:30 am
So, I have known this guy for the past four months...I had had a crush on him since I met him but was also crushing on another guy (his best friend and he knew that I liked him). Anyways, I stopped liking that guys because of other drama and had my full attention on this other guy... lets call him B. So, after finding out that I in fact liked him... it too him 2 months just to ask for my number... so now we are "dating"... nothing too serious. We have kissed twice and he has said that he is growing attached and wants to be with me exclusively. But he is hesitant and has concerns, he also broke up with his gf of two years just 6 months ago...
Problems:
-my friend and his friend I has a crush on tell me...
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NEED HELP!!! online offline .....
Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 12:43 am
first of all i am 15f and this may be long but it would be GREATLY appreciated if you would listen and respond! i neeed all the advice i can get :)
~so i have been best friends with this guy for a year. we talk EVERY DAY online and have been doing so for 6 months EVERY DAY. and he has asked me out 2 times and i have turned him down because i said i wanted our friendship to last and it was to valuable. well.... he has just recently said he has loved me, and would do anything, and always says i am beautiful, and cheers me up when i am down and he even brought me back a present from his trip to europe. well i reallllllllllly like him back but the problem is that i dont wanna tell him cause i have turned him down like 4 times and broken...
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He said I love you when stoned
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 7:28 pm
My boyfriend told me that he use to smoke weed before we got together and I told him I wouldn't date him if he continued to smoke. I find out Tuesday that he has smoked and he did it again since then. We were texting eachother when he was high and he told me he loved me. It was the first time he said it and I've already said it to him. I didn't think it was sincere because he was under influence and I told him that. He was really disappointed that I rejected it and suggested going on a break as he thinks more about his feelings. He said at the time he was comfortable and coherent to speak about his feelings. I was glad he finally said it back nonetheless. Also he has been having trouble with his parents lately and that may be a factor in h...
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follow my head or my heart?
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 4:17 pm
should i follow my head or heart and why?
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problems opening up
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 3:51 pm
i dated a guy for 15 months and i got way too close to him and so when we broke up i was really hurt. about 4 months after we broke up i met this really nice guy and i gave it a shot with him. i ended it after 2 months because i was afraid of getting too close. i'm afraid of opening up and i'm afraid of getting to close. is there anything i can do about this? i really want a healthy relationship but i can't when i'm always backing down.. :/
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I'm trapped :(
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 3:41 pm
This guy and I have been going out for four months now. Before we were together I was a virgin, and i planned to stay that way until marriage. He forced me into having sex with him. I kept telling him no but he kept on doing things to turn me on. At times I would try to push him off and he would pretend to stop and then start back up again. I was so stupid not to walk away, I should have. I should have broken up with him,and the thing is I have tried many times. I prayed about it for help and i kept firm, but the thing is he won't give up on me (or lets say let me). I guess he says I'm his first real girlfriend because his past relationships were all just hit and quit. He never took any of the girls seriously. I feel that he is too controll...
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Long story short
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 12:25 pm
I just got out of year long relationship on memorial day. Me and the guy are friends and my friends will not let me go back to him. I really like this other guy names Andy but he is my friends cousin and I don't know what to do. When he first moved here she told him everyone he could not date and I was on the list and she told me we couldn't.we agreed because we hadn't met yet and when we did we spent a lot of time just look at each other. He told me he liked me after my boyfriend broke up with me but he lives about 3 hours away. He also ran out of mins so its been 2 days since we talked. Would it be wrong to date him with the distance and the friend who said we couldn't? and is it really to soon for me to move on?
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how do you get your ex back?
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 11:37 am
how can you get your ex back ?!
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talking to guys
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 10:32 am
i don't mean to sound cocky or anything saying this but when i go out, tons of guys check me out. i've been told that i'm a good looking girl. i don't just want to get checked out though, i want to talk to guys but its weird if you're just walking and you start talking to a random guy right? like some guys will come up to you and ask you a question or something but most guys just stare and don't talk to you because you're shy. how can i talk to guys?
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advice for toning down an ex
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 3:08 am
15\m
Ok so I've been going through the year with no issues so far...except for one little annoyance. There's a girl who's in five of my classes this year, an ex-girlfriend to be exact (and oh lucky me, the one one I've ever had a bitter break up with on her end, not mine). We dated in the beginning of last year-for a month-and were friends at the beginning of this year and were over the summer as well.
I'm confused though. She'll try to provoke arguments with me for no apparent reason just out of the blue in the middle of class. I'd always just ignored it all this year pretty much and let her be a drama queen, but recently I wanted to just shut her up, so I responded to her for the first time telling her that if she really hat...
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is he worth itt ?
Posted Friday June 4 2010, 11:30 pm
i have this friend and she talks to this quy but she isnt sure if he is right for her he is always hiddinq stuff from her & he doesnt seem to respond to most of her textes . i dont know i really care for her i quess wanna know how to help her outt
siqned :
helpless
p.s can you help quick please
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I love him
Posted Friday June 4 2010, 9:37 pm
Okay , so i like this guy and hes in grade 11 but im in grade 8 , were great friends but idunno if he likes me . he gives me signs that he does but then again im not too sure . idunno what to do . should i ask him out , or let him to it ?
but theirs another problem , he has a girlfriend, its not going to work out though . His girfriend is a total slut .. she did stuff with my other giy friends . plus shes not that pretty . She kina look like a gorilla and hes soo cute . HELP !
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There is this guy...
Posted Friday June 4 2010, 9:25 pm
I met him at a soccer tournament. He is a year above me (Im graduating 8th, he is a freshman). He is going to the brother school of the all girls school I am attending next year. I am seeing him this weekend and I want to know how to make an impression. I am leaving at the end of June for a month and I want to make sure he doesn't forget me. My friends want me to invite him to a party at our beach (he lives in my town) that all of my soccer friends and I are having. Any ideas?
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Dry Sex or Dry Humping
Posted Friday June 4 2010, 9:18 pm
Okay, so im 18 years old and me and my boyfriend plan on staying virgins till we are married. Well, this is also mine and his first relationship so we are both figuring out stuff. Well the other night we both kinda got into the moment and we ended up kinda grinding up on each other, which is also known as dry sex. Well, I stopped it and it only lasted maybe 3 minutes...well, im getting all worried that there is a chance i could be pregnant even though he swears he didnt ejaculate. He was wearing underwear and jeans and i was wearing running shorts and underwear. So is there any possible way? And I know this is probably even stupid to ask but I still have about 3 weeks if not a little longer till my next period.
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This is for the guys 18 or over only!! =)
Posted Friday June 4 2010, 9:01 pm
Ok guys I'm 18 & female. Do yall happen to have any tips for me to make my man crazy over me? What do yall guys love for yalls girlfriend/wife to do that drives yall crazy. I mean I make him happy but, I want to make him even more happy. I've been doing the same routine for about 6 years, & I want to make him surpised & feeling so good, if yall know what I mean =) so do yall men have any tips for me?
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Friend to Boyfriend
Posted Friday June 4 2010, 9:00 pm
oh, here comes an original question :)
just as a note, i've never had a boyfriend (im 15...dont make fun...)
so...i have this friend...his name is "chris".
I have known chris since...maybe 3rd grade? and since the middle of 8th grade to now (very close to the end of freshman year) we have become really good friends. the thing is, and not to sound conceited or anything, but he is IN LOVE with me. no joke. he has asked me out by himself, he asked me to homecoming, he has had his and my friends ask me out, and so on. and whenever he sees me he always talks to me and hes just so cute.
me and chris get SO much crap about how we should go out...its happened all freshman year. we get it from ...
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