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I screwed up and asked a question on here
I asked a question on here and my girlfriend saw it. She was upset about the question I wrote regarding a friend in first person. I just sent her proof that it really was my friend's first words. I just asked on advicenators because I wanted to give the friend great advice but I wasn't very knowledgeable on the subject. I did give her advice though without waiting for an answer from here. I researched on the internet for great advice. Now my girlfriend wants nothing to do with me. I thought she was referring to the question I wrote about her not being able to compromise, and me not being able to have friends while in a relationship with her and all those factors were affecting my health: physically and mentally. I said on here that I couldn't break up with her. I thought it was because I didn't have the strength but I think the thing is that I'm afraid of my future with her. Will it still be no compromise situations. I always letting her be and she always getting upset when I talk to friends. It's suffocating but I don't want to let her go. I really love her and I realize I think the thing keeping me from letting her go is that I really do want to be with her forever despite the problems we have. I don't know what to. I don't want to lose her; she's what I want.
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Tell her that you dont want to lose her because you love her but that you also need to spend time with your friends too and have some "me" time. Compromise with her too say that you, her and your friends could all hang out together sometimes if she wants to. Also make her feel special, maybe she just thinks that you dont want to spend time with her so much.
Im a girl and I know that sometimes we can be clingy with guys because we just care and want to be with you all the time but you also need to make her realise that you also need your friends too because your friends mean alot. Maybe if she is hanging out with her friends you can take the opportunity to spend time with your mates or visa versa.
Hope this helps and you sort things out
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