Okay , so i like this guy and hes in grade 11 but im in grade 8 , were great friends but idunno if he likes me . he gives me signs that he does but then again im not too sure . idunno what to do . should i ask him out , or let him to it ?
but theirs another problem , he has a girlfriend, its not going to work out though . His girfriend is a total slut .. she did stuff with my other giy friends . plus shes not that pretty . She kina look like a gorilla and hes soo cute . HELP !
Another thing you have to deal with is when you date a older guy, people judge you ALOT. You tend to be a slut, a whore, a skank... and wanna be whore, etc. Just because yer dating an older guy (ii know, dumbb!)
But I think that if you really like him, and you think hes a good guy, tell him to get rid of his girlfriend or you're not "talking" to him.. You deff dont wana be the girl he cheats on his gf on!!!
Faith42 answered Saturday June 5 2010, 12:09 pm: Hello to start off I'm dating an 11th grader and I "was" an 8th grader. Now I'm a freshmen haha but yeah there is a LOT of judging you have to deal with when you date someone older than you like that. People don't understand the situation, therefor they judge. If your sensitve like I am it becomes a big burden on your part. >.< Just be careful. I really think you should hold off and wait, if he's with someone you do not want to come between that, it will bring a lot of issues into the situation and you do not want that. Just wait and see what happens, it might change for the best. Even though you know this about his girl friend don't go telling him it, or anything he needs to find out himself. Even though you DON'T think she's pretty, she could mean the world to him. :) So you never really know. Be careful and remember think before you act..what goes around comes around!! -
orphans answered Saturday June 5 2010, 9:36 am: I dated a guy in the 10th grade when i was in 8th grade. But, you need to let him come to you. Especially since he has a girlfriend. You dont want to be the girl that he cheated on her with, because people will think you are a slut, b/c of it. Even though you arent. And it looks a whole lot worse cause your in 8th grade. So, just let me him come to you, and just keep doing what your doing. Just be careful. Hoped I helped. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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