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He said I love you when stoned
My boyfriend told me that he use to smoke weed before we got together and I told him I wouldn't date him if he continued to smoke. I find out Tuesday that he has smoked and he did it again since then. We were texting eachother when he was high and he told me he loved me. It was the first time he said it and I've already said it to him. I didn't think it was sincere because he was under influence and I told him that. He was really disappointed that I rejected it and suggested going on a break as he thinks more about his feelings. He said at the time he was comfortable and coherent to speak about his feelings. I was glad he finally said it back nonetheless. Also he has been having trouble with his parents lately and that may be a factor in his odd behavior. He's been avoiding me lately and hasn't been calling when he said he would. I know he is at home with his friends watching movies. I'm really worried and let down.
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are you sure hes home with friends watching movies and not smoking? listen just because hes high and says he loves you doesnt mean it's insencere. a quote i remember is "a drunk mans words is a sober mans thoughts" perhaps he has loved you but it's just hard to say out loud for the first time, maybe not for you but other people it is. i think he wants to go on a break with you because you rejected him saying i love you, but i understand why you did it, but this makes the relationship a little more complicated now. as for the smoking, he probably will smoke again but eventually stop,summers coming too. im not sure if youve ever smoked but once you smoke once, you'll occasionally smoke again. you need to have a serious conversation and find out what he wants and plans on doing, good luck.
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