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Worth waiting?
So, I have known this guy for the past four months...I had had a crush on him since I met him but was also crushing on another guy (his best friend and he knew that I liked him). Anyways, I stopped liking that guys because of other drama and had my full attention on this other guy... lets call him B. So, after finding out that I in fact liked him... it too him 2 months just to ask for my number... so now we are "dating"... nothing too serious. We have kissed twice and he has said that he is growing attached and wants to be with me exclusively. But he is hesitant and has concerns, he also broke up with his gf of two years just 6 months ago...
Problems:
-my friend and his friend I has a crush on tell me not to trust him because he is into politics and the students government
-we barely talk... he doesnt text or call much at all
-he is nervous to be with me because he is in student government and I am an officer of a club and he thinks that people will say he has a conflict of interest
Questions:
-I am totally into this guy and we would be really good together, but does he really like me if he is nervous to make our relationship official?
-Should I be worried about him not texting or calling me?
-I don't want to appear clingy, so I avoid texting or calling him... is that wrong?
-Is it worth waiting for him to clear his mind and make a decision or should I just move on?
-Should I be worried about him just breaking up with his gf?
thank you for all your help :)
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I don't think you should worry about his past relationships because if he wanted her he would be with her,
also callin your bf and texting him isnot clingy depending on what your calling about if it's a purpose then no but just to say hey water yu doing - nothin- ohh me either- .... awkward silence - I mean it's cool to just want to hear someones voice but don't do that too often,
and I think you should wait for him because I think he'z capable of something special, even though I don't know him but based off what you tell me,
Hope I helped
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- Being part of a club shouldnt matter.
- Some guys just dont text or call alot. My boyfriend doesnt, and hwe have a perfectly happy relationship.
-If he likes you he should have no reason to be nervous to be with you. Clubs shouldnt matter. Its how you feel about somebody. And i honestly dont think that anyone is going to care all that much. Its just highschool.
Its not wrong to "avoid" texting him. But that doesnt mean dont text him ever. Send him a message every now and then. Nothing annoying, just saying hey whats up bla bla stuf flike that.
He didnt JUST break up with his girlfriend, it has been 6 months. People do need time to heal, but the fact that he is talking to you and has told you hes into you is a good sign.
Just relax, and see where it goes. Stop over thinking everything.
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