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Question Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 12:25 pm

I just got out of year long relationship on memorial day. Me and the guy are friends and my friends will not let me go back to him. I really like this other guy names Andy but he is my friends cousin and I don't know what to do. When he first moved here she told him everyone he could not date and I was on the list and she told me we couldn't.we agreed because we hadn't met yet and when we did we spent a lot of time just look at each other. He told me he liked me after my boyfriend broke up with me but he lives about 3 hours away. He also ran out of mins so its been 2 days since we talked. Would it be wrong to date him with the distance and the friend who said we couldn't? and is it really to soon for me to move on?

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LiseJose answered Sunday June 6 2010, 12:48 am:
first of all, what really pisses me off is that you have horible friends... why should they decide your love life and why do you let them, its not up to anyone but you, so if you want to go back out with your old boyfriend then go for it, once again: why do you let your friends decide just because hes your friends cousin doesnt mean you cant go out with him, if she was your friend she wouldnt care infact she would be happy. naturally distance shouldnt be a problem its up to you, if you can handle driving for hours every once in awhile. if you cant do it and your afraid of you guys drifting then dont be with him, but whats a few hours compared to a life time right? not to be mean but alot of these things you shouldnt be asking, i've noticed your the type to rely on people, and its okay but sometimes you let people make your decisions, dont let it happen again, might not seem like it but if you make your own decisions the answers are always there. i hope everything goes good and you make the right decision and i hope i helped a little, im not the person that gives you the answer but i give you easier options so i hope i helped. and i hope you make the right decision by yourself, by the way every decision you make will always be the right one for you, atleats at the time. please remember to think it through so you are positive its what you want. have a nice day.

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