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single but not.
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 7:32 pm
Alright before I tell you anything you should know that the guy I'm in love with can be beyond a complete total asshole when he wants to be. Well I broke up with him about two weeks ago because I heard he was cheating on me. Four hours after I did I realized I had made a mistake. So we have been talking about getting back together and he is coming to my house for a week. Well today a girl messaged me on myspace and asked me if we were dating. I told her no we werent but we were gonna get back together. He texted me and asked me what I had told her and then called me a cockblock. He said that since he's single he could do whatever he wanted and that he was just looking to get laid while he was single. There are two questions I have. One. Wha...
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Dating a separated man?
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 1:55 pm
My boyfriend was recently separated from his wife and they intend on getting a divorce. Should I wait to see the divorce papers and put the relationship on halt until then? I really love him and it doesn't effect me as much as you might think it would. He is 20 and I am 19. He married young and admits that it was a bad mistake. What do you guys think? I really really need advice..
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Should you not be friends with an ex lover if you still love him
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 1:33 pm
This guy I use to be with on and off started to IM me again and wants to catch up well I think he might want to be friends and the thing is I want to be his girlfriend I've been waiting for him to be mine being on and off isn't good enough I want him to stay and not go anywhere so I told him I can't just be his friend I want a relationship with you I told him if we do catch up I don't want it to be we catch up as friends we have been doing that already I'm tired of that I want him to be mine. How do I show him I really want to be his girlfriend by the way I emailed him what I wanted only because we don't see each other in person as much now and usually when he says lets catch up or meet up it doesnt happen for a week hes a busy guy I couldn...
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I got played.
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 10:40 am
Ok so this might be a little long but please read and help me =]
So I just got out of a 15 month relationship in May. My ex told me that it was going to be hard to find a good guy that will treat me right like he did. About 2 or 3 weeks I went to open houses and such and then went to a bonfire with my friends. There was this really cute guy there who talked to me and stuff. I got his number the next day and we started talking. He told me that he was having people over later and wanted to know if I would come. I told him yes that I could probably do that. Well he texts me later and said that he is no longer going to have people over and wanted to go to a movie. So me him and my cousin and her boyfriend went to the movie...
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I don't want to be just his friend though
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 9:13 am
I don't want to be just friends with this person I want to be more. So that's what I'm doing I emailed him it's just I can't pretend I don't have these feelings I don't want us to catch up as friends more like catch up and get to know each other as more than friends I mean we use to hold hands hug all that stuff we spoke about being with each other so many times I know he must care more than a friend but I just don't want to be only his friend I love this guy its hard to accept him as just a friend. He told me he keeps the messages because it makes him happy when he reads it its so confusing lol
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No sex drive after baby
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 3:39 am
So my husband and I have been married close to two years...together for 5. Since I had my daughter who is 14 months I haven't really been into sex that much...also I have been on anti depresants for a while and that drags down my sex life majorly.
I don't know what to do cause he is kinda needy that way and I feel like I can't be that way.
I don't know if I should try to go off the pills and see if that helps or cut down even more (already cut it to 50 mg from 100).
I just know how he feels and understands I just don't know.
What do you think?
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Is it ok to have sex with someone you work with?
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 3:12 am
Can I have sex with a guy at work?
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sexual tension
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 2:03 am
I'm a 17 year old girl. I have a new guy friend that I get along with really really well. We just met but we started to hang out alone. I want to be good friends with him and potentially date him, but I don't know whether I'm attracted to him yet. Also, I want to make it clear that I want to be friends at [least for right now]. But he talks to me how he would talk to a girl he likes, by complimenting me and always calling and texting me and wanting to hang out all the time. I hate the tension I feel when we're together cause I feel as though he likes me and it makes it awkward when I'm with him. I wish I was sure that I'm attracted to him... any tips on that? And also..
How do I make him know that for now I want to be friends...
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Why are some people against interracial relationships?
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 1:17 am
From a 'black' person's POV
I don't get it. You can't blame someone for something their ancestors did in the past. And not every white person is even the descendant of slave owners, and not every black person is the descendant of slaves (w/ the whole American slave trade). Everyone has ancestors that did stupid sh** in the past. That is no excuse. Heck, everyone does stupid sh** anyways, cause humans aren't perfect.
Whenever the topic is brought up when I'm talking to my mom, she humphs. And it bugs me because I'm open to dating any race. I'm 16 and haven't had a boyfriend yet, but I wonder what my mom would think if the person isn't black, or even African (I'm Cameroonian). The only reasoning I've heard from h...
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Does he just want to hook up with me? I want a relationship!
Posted Friday June 25 2010, 12:16 am
Ok, I've met this guy online and he's really good looking and he tells me i'm sexy and really cute. He talks about how he wishes we lived closer. We also talk about how we (along with alot of friends) should all go out camping sometime but then he said that we should get our own tent and I know that he just wants a hook up there but how do I tell him that I don't just want to hook up and I would like a relationship? When he says stuff like that, I just agree because I don't want him to lose interest.
Thank you!!! (p.s. I'm 20 and he's 19 and I'm still a virgin but he doesn't know :-/ )
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The guy I really like started to talk to me again not sure what this means?
Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 10:45 pm
So I guess I'll explain the relationship between me and the guy I'm talking about we basically started as friends and became more we have a lot of physical chemistry and whatever we used to sort of date he would take me to the pizzeria he would alway pay and act like a real gentleman and whatever I never kissed him because we weren't an actual couple and I just can't kiss someone unless we are. Anyways we ended whatever we were last spring 09 because of some other girl and we also got back together last fall and we were really close and def had plans to be together but somehow it didn't work out and he just stopped talking to me for a few months I think it became stressful because we live 30 min away it was hard to keep it going plus theres...
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breakup
Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 10:12 pm
after a guy breaks up with you, is there any possible way that you can try to get a relationship back?
i dated my bf for eight months and its been a month since we broke up but im not talking to him right now because i thought i would give him some space.
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everything is such a mess...
Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 9:32 pm
okay so i dated a guy for 2 years. he was the love of my life, the only guy i ever had a real connection with and the only guy i ever loved. about 5 months after we broke up i started talking to this new guy, i really liked him but definetly not even half as much as my first. i broke it off with him after like 2 months because i know what love feels like and unfortunetly i just didn't feel it with him. and now there's this new guy that i'm talking to and he's really sweet but recently i just can't stop wanting to be with my first. i'm not afraid to say that i'm completely head over heals in love with him but i don't know what to do like i'm still talking to this guy but i don't wanna just like stop...how do i gradually end it? i don't want...
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I need help with the love life wit my bf
Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 6:29 pm
Hey :) well I'm 13 and I need help me and my bf have been going out for 8 months were still virgins but we had conversations about havinq sex together should I ? I realy think he is the one ... Oh and sory another question I have gotten fingerd befor but I'm not sure if I still am a virgin am I?? I did not feel much niether did I bleed. My bestfriend told me that mabey it ddnt go all the way in to make my chery pop is sh right?? I need help I need answers please help :)
With love, gata :)
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split but not
Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 4:43 pm
oay ibroke up with my bf two weeeks ago, well it wasa mistake. I want him back and he said he wants me back and i told him all he had to to was ask and im his. He told me that he was going to wait. If he loved me and wanted me back why would he make me wait. I only broke up with him for four hours before i was apologizing.
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abusive ex, protective new boy, not good :/
Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 2:43 pm
Okay. So. I am fifteen, a girl, gonna be a sophomore. My ex boyfriend (Jake) is seventeen. We had a really unhealthy relationship... He was slightly abusive, I guess it was cause I just let him walk all over me and he started thinking it was okay, and I started thinking it too. He never actually HIT me... It was mostly verbal abuse, like words and stuff and grabbing and what not. It did leave a few bruises. It was kind of scary though. He would hold me down and force me to say "yes sir" and "you're the boss" and stuff like that. He was really into power. That's basically why we broke up.
Since we've been broken up I've been trying very hard to distance myself from him. And since I have I've realized how m...
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perfect birthday present
Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 1:29 am
so I have nooo idea what to get my boyfriend for his 19th birthday! he likes sports, he's gonna be playing pro football most likely, but idk what to get him ! :p he's such a sweetheart so I'd like to get him something meaningful I just don't know what :p any ideas? lol try and keep it under $100 :p
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I want my ex back... Or at least to get over him...
Posted Wednesday June 23 2010, 11:33 pm
Ok, I'm 17/f and my ex is 17/m.
Let's just start off by saying that this was my first serious relationship. I loved (and still currently love) this guy to death. I lost my virginity to him... and basically thought we were going to be together forever... I know, that's really naive of a 17 year old, but it SEEMED that way. It really did. For the most part, our 7 month relationship was amazing. I mean, it had its little bumps along the way, but every relationship has those. Just before our 7 month anniversary, things started going downhill. My boyfriend became majorly depressed due to family issues and pulled away from me. I tried everything I could, but I just felt him slipping away... In a way, I think I made it worse. The last day o...
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A past ex :/
Posted Wednesday June 23 2010, 7:46 pm
Hello 14 f PLEASE ANSWER SOON...its really important nd i dont have much time :/
Well tomorrow I might be seeing my ex, and this ex made me miserable a traumatizing experience for me. Now he's always at my towns city pool every day in the summer..im going there with my cousins, my aunt and my grandmother. Every time I go, with my best friend or anyone I get so nervous and sick to my stomach because I have bad memories there. How should I face him, because I really despise this guy, he doesn't like me much..so I don't know what to do..sense my boy friend won't be with me. My friend says to show off what he's missing. hahah >.> Seriously though what should i do? please reply soon..i only have today..
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why do i always feel the need to masterbate?
Posted Wednesday June 23 2010, 3:20 pm
what will happen if i masterbate with a water jet. i am from the united kingdom
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