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single but not.
Alright before I tell you anything you should know that the guy I'm in love with can be beyond a complete total asshole when he wants to be. Well I broke up with him about two weeks ago because I heard he was cheating on me. Four hours after I did I realized I had made a mistake. So we have been talking about getting back together and he is coming to my house for a week. Well today a girl messaged me on myspace and asked me if we were dating. I told her no we werent but we were gonna get back together. He texted me and asked me what I had told her and then called me a cockblock. He said that since he's single he could do whatever he wanted and that he was just looking to get laid while he was single. There are two questions I have. One. What should I say to him. And two. Since he's goin to do that would it be alright for me to mess around with another guy to see how he likes it?
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Obviously... you may love hime but HE DOESNT LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!! sorry to be rude but forget him you should tell ihm to screw off and try to get over him. try to find a person that loves you. follw my advice and you can sleep with whoever you want to but its none of his buisess.i know it will be hard but cut all your contacts with him tell him goodbye and dont talk to him again
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ONE: Say "Go screw yourself."
TWO: Sorry, but it doesn't seem like he'll care much. Even if he does get a little jealous, what do you xpect? Do you think he'll suddenly realize how much of a jerk he's been and he feels like his heart's been ripped apart & he never wants to lose you & he wants to staart all over & be together forever? NOT gonna happen, sorry. Not only that, but you'd just be making a slut of yourself by doing that for a guy who's NOT worht your time (harsh? sorry, it had t be said). I say it's time to get over him. You say you're in love with him, but for God's sake, the guy admitted to being a douche RIGHT to your face; he DOESN'T want to be with you, at least not have a real relationship. He's NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU. And you know what? The fact that you'd even consider messing around with another guy makes it clear you're not even in love with him either. Break things off COMPLETELY with this asshole.
Unless of course you wanna go ahead & let yourself be used & humiliated & let him step all over you & do whatever he damn well pleases. If that doesn't hurt you, or if you're just willing to get used like that, then go for it. It's a matter of self-respect, mostly.
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Number one, you should sayy BYE!! If he's just using you for sex then you shouldn't want to date him.A loving relationship has to go to ways, not just one.
Number two, trying to make a guy jealous, in my opinion is low. Well trying to make anyone jealous is really low. If you try to make him jealous, when he doesn't like you, and it works, it's just gonna make him like you out of jealously. I don't know you or this guy. But he sounds like a total jerk, and nobody deserves to be put through a bunch of games..especially cheating.
But that's just my opinion do whatever you would like, but keep that in mind..
good luck(:
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