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this guy i liked recently started dating this girl
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 6:01 pm
he’s going to be a senior next year, and she’s starting her freshman year of college in mid august. this guy knows i liked him, and he kinda strung me along for a few months before dating her. what im trying to ask do you think their relationship will last long? she’s also running in college, and its a D1 school so it’d be hard for them to see each other. though the school is only an hour away. im not trying to be immature, when he told me they were dating i genuinely wished him the best. im just plain curious. i don't know what to do. he was literally begging me to still be friends with him.
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Should I give it a try?
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 4:09 pm
Okay so this guy and I graduated high school together and we never really talked in school until we graduated and fall of our freshmen year of college he contacted me over facebook and we just started talking,texting and sometimes talking over the phone.We eventually hung out like one time and we talked and just watched a movie and he didnt even try to kiss me or anything and he wanted me to call him when i get home just to make sure I got home okay which i thought was really sweet. Well that was the only time we hung out because during our winter break we both were sick and couldnt hang out but we still talked and texted each other until january then we stopped texting each other. It wasnt anything bad we just stopped talking for some reas...
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getting a boy back, please help!
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 3:44 pm
how hard is it to get a guy back after you dated?
i dated my boyfriend for 8 months and its been a month since he broke up with me. i decided to give him some space cause i think he needs it. im the longest relationship he has been in the other two were just one month, not even. his reasons were that things faded, he didnt have time for things right then and that i was more serious than he was but i dont get how cause we were on the same page. i know casually talking right now is what is easy and is what i should do. but i do want him back. how can i make it seem like ive changed? i always use to get frustrated from not seeing him and i thought it was normal? im not sure though.
do i just talk to him and see w...
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Law And Love
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 12:20 pm
I Just Made 15 May 26.My Boyriend Is 17 Now bt his bday is october 10.So my dad is like he can go to jail and i dont want you with him.but ilove this guyy so much and i no some people are like your to young for all this but if you could feel what we have you would understand.we been dating for 4 months.hes much more mature than me and he says he loves me soo much.my family is trying to tears us apart.i tried to break up with him once,but he knew that it was not my heart speaking.He said ill do what ever it takes to be with you,we not had sex or anything so thats nothing to do with it.but my family wont leave me alone about him,its crazy love is crazy.
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tryin things out
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 9:41 am
what are some sexy new things to try while making out? like new kisses to try, or new places to kiss? things that will make my boy really want me. or like cute little things to whisper in his ear?
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Jealousy
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 3:34 am
My problem is simple. I am an 18 female going into college this fall and I'm jealous of this one girl that my bf of 20 years of is friends with. I too have many guy friends that I hang out with as well. We both love each other very much and we have a healthy relationship. We both spend get time to ourselves, for school, to our friends and other important things so we are not smothered. The problem isn't him, it's me. I am the baby in my family and I know this sounds bad but I think I have this problem since I'm used to getting all the attention. I am not a snotty person but this one girl just really irritates me. My bf has never cheated on me and tells me to trust him. However, I always get mad at him when they hang out, they never hang out...
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i'm too shy to talk to him.
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 12:15 am
k, soo i'm 15 and i've never had a boyfriend, i've never kissed a guy, i've never done ANYTHING with a guy. I'm way to shy. I could've had a lot of boyfriends but my shyness/pickiness hasgotten in the way! I think everytime a guy asks me out he's just kidding and someone set him up to it!
as you can see I am not real confident in myself.
anyways, there's this guy and I like him alottt.
we had a class together first semester last year and he was soo nice to me! he'd compliment me, and notice every little thing about me! like if I got a new outfit or something. something most people wouldn't notice. and I really like that about him. my mom says thats a good thing :)
he'd try talking to me and starting co...
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I'm stuck on a guy that doesn't love me anymore.
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 11:41 pm
Me and my ex boyfriend broke up. I still loved him but i couldn't be with him because of my parents. I was going to wait until I moved out to be with him again. He moved on before I could tell him. Now, I cant move on and he insults me to try to get me to go away. He doesnt want me in his life anymore and I cant seem to accept that. How can I move on and stop loving him?
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My mom is ruining my relationship
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 9:45 pm
My mom hates my boyfriend. But it isnt the first time, she's literally hated every single person ive ever been friends with and or dated. She makes it completely obvious that she doesnt like him, and because im with him, she's horrible to me. She likes to call me names and refuses to help me in any way. Today is my 20th birthday and she told me she would take me out to dinner, and when my boyfriend was there she made a huge scene and refused to take us anywhere. It just hurts so badly because im one of the nicest people ever. For mothers day i took her out to eat twice, and im the only one who even remembered her birthday.
I dont care about not getting a dinner, i care about her ruining the only relationship i have rig...
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i dont know if im gay
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 7:05 pm
ok so im 14 right now and i think i like girls and guys but im more turned on to guys so am i gay or bi? and i am single i really like this one guy but he is 17 what should i do about him? oh and im also looking for a nice 14 year old in western nebraska but a long distance relashionship is fine with me so guys or girls leave me your number tell me your name age and gender and ill text you
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Understanding Guys and Phone Calls
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 6:59 pm
Hi!
OK, about a month ago in class I started talking to this guy. Ok for the whole Spring Semester (from January until May) I never spoke to him and then one day while we were waiting for a student to get done speaking to our teacher he just started speaking to me. The same night I was trying to pick classes to register for Fall and I just Facebook Messaged him and he gave me a response and asked about my weekend and then after corresponding he stopped but added me to FB. About a week later we went to a concert unbeknownst to each other and the next day we talked about it and he walked me to work. So after IMing he gave me a few songs from the band's album. we exchanged numbers and then it came out on his end that he was interested. ...
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How do I make him really turned on so he stays interested In me?
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 6:10 pm
I need help! My bf and I have been dating for about 5ish months. I am not ready for intercourse condsidering I am only almost 14. I don't want to show him anything or him to show me anything. I also don't want for him to touch any of my private parts or vise-versa. He is kinda hy an basicaly I just want Jim to want to touch me basically.I mean when we are sitting sown or something together he will put his arm around me an stuff. But I just want him to get turned on by me. I mean it would be something I can do in front of people tho cause we don't get alot of alone time. I there anything I can do to make him really turned on so he stys interested In me? I know he is faithful but I want him just to stay interested. (also it's be great if I ca...
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too good for him?
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 1:56 pm
I'm 22/F and for the most part, have my life in order and know what I'm doing and where I'm going (college, work, future). Recently, I got involved with a guy my age, and to be utterly honest, he's not like me. He's got some big flaws, is a little lost in life, unambitious, isn't financially stable, but he admits these weaknesses. I don't fall easily and I'm smart when it comes to guys, but he's a sweet, caring guy who makes me laugh until I cry and I'm having the best time of my life with him. The problem lies in what everyone else is thinking & saying, that I'm "slumming it this summer". My family and friends think I'm too good for him and that basically he's trash. I just thought I'd have a good time with a good guy and see...
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Habit needs to stop ?
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 11:11 am
Sooo for a while me and my bf have smoked together but it's like my whole paycheck just goes to weed, it's bad I know :( I don't even like to smoke just ocassionally and it's like evvverydayyy idk what to tell him about this like there's much better stuff I rather spend my money on but I know he's Always gonna want to smoke and it bothers me soooo much but I don't say anything cause he just expects it from me... I just don't know, any advice ?
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how do u sit in the movies
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 1:18 am
i went to the movies with this guy and hed put his arm around me in such an akward uncomfortable way..my exs have never really ben like that.
how are some ways you typically sit in a movie theatre? one, i know with his arm around you but like where..
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hes sobering up for me but im unsure if its worth it..
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 1:15 am
a guy i like asked me to go to the movies with him and always picks me up and is so sweet, i do really like him hes perfect, but hes ben a druggie for a few years and finally sobering up. my friends dont like him around, my best friend gravely hates him, and we dodge my mom because hes always smelt of smoke. yet two of my girls who see me with him like him cuz theyv seen his sweet side.
that sounds very harsh but hes sobering up for me, and hes so protective of me so i dont get into drugs and from other guys. he is a pure gentleman, picks me up, tries to pay, holds me like im his world. i always told him i wont kiss a smoker when hed ask tho, iv never kissed him.
yet he picked me up n we went with his friends out to eat one da...
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has he moved on? shoud i move on too?
Posted Monday June 28 2010, 4:41 pm
ok, i really like this guy, but I'm not gunna say his real name, ok? let's say his name is....Jake, ok, Jake. well, i really like "jake" and we've been great friends ever since before Pre-K! and, i could tell he's always kinda liked me because of the way he looks at me, he smiles, ans his face gets all lit up, it's cute =]..anyways! i didn't see him for a while last year, we go to different schools and now we only see each other every monday in the summer, apparently, last year, he got a girlfriend, she's a year younger than "jake", a little chubby, and just plain EW. did he move on? is there no chance left for me? should i move on to someone else?
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ex boyfriend drama
Posted Monday June 28 2010, 3:46 pm
my ex boyfriend only wants what he doesnt have (me) we have been off and on again and now are just mates. he admitted to likeing me yesterday but i think were better off as mates. does this work out sometimes?
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Forgetful Boyfriend
Posted Monday June 28 2010, 3:33 pm
So im turning 20 tomorrow, and my mom asked me to come over to have dinner with the family. I asked my boyfriend if he'd like to go to dinner with me and he responded that he had plans already and he wouldnt be able to. Hes having a party at his new apartment.
Well, ive just noticed that he probably forgot my birthday is tomorrow. Should i just let it go and not remind him??? I dont care about presents or anything, but hes been a bit of a dick lately, and if he honestly has forgotton im probably going to be pretty upset.
What should i do?
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Trust issues? Am I being paranoid?
Posted Monday June 28 2010, 1:17 pm
16/f
Me and my bf have been together for a while and we would like to have sex soon...and that's where the story starts...
A year ago,we were in a relationship for 8 months...but then he let me down and I was really dying inside but I didn't let it show.it's a long story really.Now,a year has passed and the old flame has started burning,for both him and me...he really changed and is treating me right...but because I was hurting the way I did,I always think he doesn't love me and wants to use me...even though he never tried anything without my permission...I love him a lot and I wanna give in to my desire but I'm so afraid of him leaving me when he gets what he wants.We have talked about this a lot and he told me a million time...
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