my ex boyfriend only wants what he doesnt have (me) we have been off and on again and now are just mates. he admitted to likeing me yesterday but i think were better off as mates. does this work out sometimes?
nonameboy70 answered Sunday July 4 2010, 6:24 pm: if you like him tell him and be with him just tell him to cut the crap and lets face it you want to be more then mates just tell hime and see what happens gou out give him 1 omre try [ nonameboy70's advice column | Ask nonameboy70 A Question ]
kibawolfe answered Sunday July 4 2010, 4:37 am: If you still like him, tell him, but warn him that you are tired of the drama and arguments do what you think is best if you really feel you should just be mates let him know but if you think it's a good idea give him another chance and try to make it work out, get to the root of the problem and try to fix it.
Good Luck! Get back to me! I want to know how it works out! :3 [ kibawolfe's advice column | Ask kibawolfe A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Monday June 28 2010, 10:40 pm: It is possible to remain friends with an ex. However, you two definitely need some space first. He needs to move on before you can maintain a friendship. Seeing you all the time before moving on will only cause him to fall for you all over again. Allow two months or so for you to be apart before attempting friendship. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
OhMyLucyDarling answered Monday June 28 2010, 9:19 pm: This is why I don't get involved with exes, If you two can't keep a stable relationship then you aren't meant to be together.
He may like you, but again you two have tried being in a relationship and it didn't work if you two were to date again....What is going to change to make it work? Nothing exactly.
You two are better of being friends, That IS if you two can maintain a friendship and respect one another wishes to keep it that simple. Maybe it would be best if you two kept the contact to a minimum until the feelings start to fade a bit. If you two keep on dating on and off it isn't going to go anywhere, He may like you, He may not like you...Maybe he is just telling you what you want to hear. On a more personal note, I don't stay in contact with exes, They are too much drama and stress. I date someone, If it doesn't work out I go my separate way. I don't become friends with drama. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
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