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Law And Love
I Just Made 15 May 26.My Boyriend Is 17 Now bt his bday is october 10.So my dad is like he can go to jail and i dont want you with him.but ilove this guyy so much and i no some people are like your to young for all this but if you could feel what we have you would understand.we been dating for 4 months.hes much more mature than me and he says he loves me soo much.my family is trying to tears us apart.i tried to break up with him once,but he knew that it was not my heart speaking.He said ill do what ever it takes to be with you,we not had sex or anything so thats nothing to do with it.but my family wont leave me alone about him,its crazy love is crazy.
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Control sexual urges and they can't touch him. If you can keep your hormones under control and act like you've got a cop looking over your shoulder at all times, then they won't ever be able to get this guy in any real trouble.
The other thing you can do is absolutely refuse to ever say anything to a cop other than "we've never had any sexual contact of any kind". Also, no matter what anyone including your parents says, you do not ever have to submit to a rape kit at a hospital or anything similar if you do not want to. Last, if your parents have friends on the force know that cops can and will lie to you, cops are not required to ever tell you the truth about anything.
You might also want to bring this up to a school counselor. They're kind of obliged to talk to you, and it provides a person you've talked to before he was ever arrested who can attest to the fact that your parents have serious issues with a guy and are possibly willing to lie to get their way and control you.
There's nothing unusual with a freshman dating a junior. If your parents are willing to lie, start laying a trail and involving non family adults like school counselors, or consider if there are adults within your family who would side with you over your parents and tell the truth about the fact that they're doing this to try to control you.
And always remember, keep shit as nun-ish as possible when you're around the guy. Pretty much anything that isn't kissing puts him at risk when you're talking about a jury trial.
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You might of been with this guy for 4 months, However once he turns 18 he is legally an adult. Your parents have say on who and who you are with considering the unfortunate but you are a minor. If you two were to have any sexual contact with one another he could be in some serious trouble, All it takes is for one person to say the wrong thing. You are under your parents roof, You are a minor, You are their child and if they say they don't want you to date him...Then that is what it will be. You can try talking to them but again it is THEIR choice.
IF you and your boyfriend ever did decide to have sex and IF someone ever did find out your boyfriend could be charged with sexual assault, Statutory rape to a person under the age of 18, Corruption of a minor etc.
My advice and although you don't want to hear it, Is if your parents don't want you with him then listen to them.
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