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Understanding Guys and Phone Calls
Hi!
OK, about a month ago in class I started talking to this guy. Ok for the whole Spring Semester (from January until May) I never spoke to him and then one day while we were waiting for a student to get done speaking to our teacher he just started speaking to me. The same night I was trying to pick classes to register for Fall and I just Facebook Messaged him and he gave me a response and asked about my weekend and then after corresponding he stopped but added me to FB. About a week later we went to a concert unbeknownst to each other and the next day we talked about it and he walked me to work. So after IMing he gave me a few songs from the band's album. we exchanged numbers and then it came out on his end that he was interested. Ok, we started texting even after school ended and he went 6 hours away. I always was the one to text or call first. So I just felt that it was getting tedious for me to always initiate everything and for three weeks I quit texting him and then I called last nite around 12 and left a message. He still hasn't texted or called and the question is:
How long should I wait to get a response from him and if he doesn't respond doesn it mean he isn't interested and why would he not be after our history together?
Thanks
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If you text him and he doesn't answer, give him a day before you text him again. If he doesn't respond within a week after the second text, he's not interested.
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This may not be what you want to hear, but if he isn't responding, he has moved on. It would seem this guy was after one thing and when he didn't get it, he gave up. Guys are jerks when it comes to things like this. The best thing if he is still interested is to find someone else. If he sees that you have moved on, he will come back. A man likes a challenge and if he feels he doesn't have one, he loses interest. The only way to know if a guy is truly interested is if he initiates the conversation and does the asking etc. If he stops, then thats it. :)
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