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i dont know if im gay


Question Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 7:05 pm

ok so im 14 right now and i think i like girls and guys but im more turned on to guys so am i gay or bi? and i am single i really like this one guy but he is 17 what should i do about him? oh and im also looking for a nice 14 year old in western nebraska but a long distance relashionship is fine with me so guys or girls leave me your number tell me your name age and gender and ill text you

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ruave06 answered Thursday May 12 2011, 2:59 am:
It sounds like you are bisexual but it's ok. Go with what your heart tells you. That is the only way.

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CaptainKid answered Thursday July 1 2010, 6:32 pm:
Right, so coming from someone rather well versed in the whole gay-bisexual-transgender community, I would say that it's still too early to try and figure things out. Whether you find out you're attracted to purely males, purley females, or both later on, there's no need to rush and try to slap a lable on your sexuality.
As you get older, your sexuality can change and shift. Coming from someone who's labled herself as a lesbian for four years before setteling on bisexual, and later transgender.
Lables change and you should try and just llet your mind to be open to everyone. Who knows, you might just find someone you like who's gender may not be exactly what you'd originally thought you liked.

About the seventeen year old boy. If you like him, the worst thing you can do is not do anything. If you like him, get to know him. There is always the age difference though. If he's already 'out' of the closet, he's got quite a bit of experience on you and may have already figured out who he is in terms of sexuality. Sometimes, that's a problem when you're just starting to figure yourself out on your own.

Like the user before me said, this isn't a dating page. But you know, it can't hurt to try and get to know people on all different mediums. I'd like to point out that facebook isn't originally a dating page either, for the one user who posted that. You never know where you'll meet someone. And there's nothing wrong with looking in unexpected places like advicenators.
My name is Cameron, I just turned sixteen, and I'd love to text sometime. My number is up on my page.

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OhMyLucyDarling answered Tuesday June 29 2010, 9:27 pm:
This is not a dating site, This is a site for advice. If you want a mate, That is what facebook is for.


From what you've describe you could be bisexual but at your age you are probably just sexually curious.

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Advicelady6798 answered Tuesday June 29 2010, 7:45 pm:
A bi-sexual always likes one side more than the other. They feel more comfortable with a gender more than the other. Age shouldn't matter, if you like the guy, try and see how it works out. If not, at least you don't have to wonder what would have happened.

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