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i'm too shy to talk to him.

Question Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 12:15 am

k, soo i'm 15 and i've never had a boyfriend, i've never kissed a guy, i've never done ANYTHING with a guy. I'm way to shy. I could've had a lot of boyfriends but my shyness/pickiness hasgotten in the way! I think everytime a guy asks me out he's just kidding and someone set him up to it!
as you can see I am not real confident in myself.

anyways, there's this guy and I like him alottt.
we had a class together first semester last year and he was soo nice to me! he'd compliment me, and notice every little thing about me! like if I got a new outfit or something. something most people wouldn't notice. and I really like that about him. my mom says thats a good thing :)
he'd try talking to me and starting conversations with me, but i'd be waay to shy to keep the conversation going. when I got switched out of that class he'd say hi to me in the hallways but all I could do is smile! Why can't I talk to him? he doesn't have a facebook/myspace, and I don't have his number soo theres no way of getting ahold of him. but, if I happen to see him this coming up year & have a class with him what are some things I can do/say to show him I like him?
and what are some things I could do to come out of my shell? Do you think he liked/likes me? or am I just overreacting? PLEASEEE HELPPP.

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Sammy305 answered Thursday July 1 2010, 2:33 pm:
Just because your shy doesnt mean you cant just have a conversation with him. Im shy but i can have an hour long conversation with a guy. Talking to him is one step more to know if he has feelings for you (:

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RACHElbby answered Wednesday June 30 2010, 6:45 am:
I'm 15/f also .

I have mainly only guy friends, cause I grew up with only brothers, so I've never been able to connect to girls . So I feel like maybe I can help .

This guy... it really seems like you have a good chance with him. Most guys don't notice little things like a new outfit, & he does. So that's wonderful. (: & He's TRYING to start conversation with you, & if he wasn't interested at all, he wouldn't spend his time doing so.

Tips for the coming up school year, I would recommend smiling when you talk to him. Guys love making girls happy. And just be confident. Look him in the eye ,don't keep hair in your face ,no hands over the mouth (my habit). I used to be shy & still kinda get that way around the dude I like ,but I just gained some confidence to talk to him & now ,we're going to the movies tomorrow. Haha. (:
& Also, even if you can't think of anything to talk to him about ,bring up anything ... guys have short attention spans anyways. Haha . Ask him how his summer was. Or how his day is going. Or how's life. Anything.

But you've got it. You seem sweet, & he seems to like you, by what you said.

I really hope I helped. (:

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