i dated my boyfriend for 8 months and its been a month since he broke up with me. i decided to give him some space cause i think he needs it. im the longest relationship he has been in the other two were just one month, not even. his reasons were that things faded, he didnt have time for things right then and that i was more serious than he was but i dont get how cause we were on the same page. i know casually talking right now is what is easy and is what i should do. but i do want him back. how can i make it seem like ive changed? i always use to get frustrated from not seeing him and i thought it was normal? im not sure though.
do i just talk to him and see where things go? maybe go back to where we began and talk like that?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Advicelady6798 answered Wednesday June 30 2010, 10:27 pm: The first serious relationship is the hardest and probably the most scary. He might have really deep feelings for you, but he is scared to let anyone in. I did the same thing, but it took almost a year to figure out I actually did love the guy. The best thing to wait it out, because talking to him might drive him further away. If you truly want him back, then let him come to you. When you know you are in love, you get anxious when you get ready to see the person and become extremely anxious when you are not around or see the person. It is perfectly normal and healthy to feel this way. If you do it right, it won't be that hard to get him back at all. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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