Okay so this guy and I graduated high school together and we never really talked in school until we graduated and fall of our freshmen year of college he contacted me over facebook and we just started talking,texting and sometimes talking over the phone.We eventually hung out like one time and we talked and just watched a movie and he didnt even try to kiss me or anything and he wanted me to call him when i get home just to make sure I got home okay which i thought was really sweet. Well that was the only time we hung out because during our winter break we both were sick and couldnt hang out but we still talked and texted each other until january then we stopped texting each other. It wasnt anything bad we just stopped talking for some reason I texted him at like midnight like 2 weeks after we stopped talking and he never answered me. I found out like 3 weeks after we stopped talking he asked his ex girlfriend (who is really good friends with my best friend so shes a friend of a friend but we hang out sometimes together because we have a mutual friend) and she told me this like to rub it in my face sort of but she said she didnt like him or anything but they went out to dinner together though nothing happened after that they just went out to dinner and that was it. Well turns out like 6 months sicne we lasted talked to one another I saw today I got a text from him at midnight last night saying hey how have you been I havent talked to you in a while. So im not really sure what to make of it. Should I text him later today is it too late to text him? Should I just ignore his text? Do you think he is playing me or just wants to talk be friends? I dont know what to do! If you could give me any advice I would love that. Thanks.
nonameboy70 answered Monday July 5 2010, 9:04 pm: it sounds to me like he likes you and the other chick knew that to but you didnt realize it so talk to him if you like him ask him out on a date try to start something [ nonameboy70's advice column | Ask nonameboy70 A Question ]
snarky answered Wednesday June 30 2010, 7:29 pm: I think you're over analyzing this and you need to stop.
You both hung out once and you had a good time, sure. But it wasn't a date, and although you two were talking he never made an attempt to actually date you. And that's the point.
He could've stopped texting you for a multitude of reasons, but most likely he stopped texting you because he's not interested.
I'd stop worrying over this guy, and move on. If you want to continue wondering when he'll text you back, that's up to you. But in the long run, it seems quite silly, doesn't it? [ snarky's advice column | Ask snarky A Question ]
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