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Habit needs to stop ?
Sooo for a while me and my bf have smoked together but it's like my whole paycheck just goes to weed, it's bad I know :( I don't even like to smoke just ocassionally and it's like evvverydayyy idk what to tell him about this like there's much better stuff I rather spend my money on but I know he's Always gonna want to smoke and it bothers me soooo much but I don't say anything cause he just expects it from me... I just don't know, any advice ?
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you need to stand up for your self. tell him you are trying to save for a new car and your serious about it. set a goal for your self and be honest. if he gets mad.. then maybe... he is using you? tell him to get a job and buy it
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Ask yourself how much you really have in common with your boyfriend aside from the same drug habit. If you want to get sober you need to stay away from anyone in your path who continues to use in front of you or at all. You will succumb to pressure otherwise.
Tell him what you told us that you feel smoking weed is pointless and not good for your health or well-being and that you will no longer spend your money on it or enable him. Tell him unless he decides to stop that you can't be around him and be firm and stay firm on it.
There are groups out there for teens who suffer from all kinds of drug habits and that would be the perfect place to start for help as well as to turn to your family. You need a support network to succeed with this.
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Its simple really. You just tell him like you told us. If he wants to continue to smoke using his own money, so be it. But you have other things you'd rather spend your money on.
If he's going to insist you continue, then you need to seriously consider finding yourself a guy who respects you more than he does.
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