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i still like him even though he never wants to get back together
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 11:17 pm
Okay, I am a girl and 14, so I dated this guy for about 4 months and everything was amazing the first two months. But then he started to really annoy me no matter what the last two months and I was never intown to hang out with him or anything. I was always told that he was cheating on me with other girls while I was away, but i just didn't think he was like that. I don't think that i loved the guy but I think I was close to a feeling like that even though he still annoyed me constantly, he would still put a smile on my face. But when we broke up, it wasn't a nice break up. I told him to never talk to me again, because it really hurt me, even though it was what I wanted. We didn't talk for about a month but I still knew I had feelings for h...
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He is in jail... what do I write to him about??
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 9:44 pm
He's in jail for 6-8 years!! Im waiting for him, well giving it a shot! BUT I have no Idea what i'm gonna talk to him about (other than how I've been and whats going on out here). Any Ideas??
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Staying with my HS boyfriend when I go to college
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 8:47 pm
I will be a college freshman this fall and am planning on staying with my high school boyfriend. I love him so much and we are very serious but lately I have been feeling a lot of anxiety about the situation. I'm scared if what will happen to us. I don't know if I can handle the long distance relationship. I'm going to miss him so much and I don't want to miss out on having a great time in college. The thing about us that is different from most college freshman in relationships is that he isn't going to college. He is joining the military so I know he will not be partying or doing anything he shouldn't be doing (Even though I know he never would) Anyway I feel like I need to be with him no matter what...he needs my support as a solider...I ...
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Never loved someone like this before..
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 8:06 pm
Well its a long story..me and my relationship with my boyfriend. To me its like a romeo and juliet type of thing. His grandmother doesn't understand my boy friend, at all she doesnt want him to date me. She thinks im trashy? When I'm far from it :,( She was apparently stalking my fb page and my friends, they acutally went as far as to creat an account as lous cousin Cody..but it was really his aunt trying to figure things out about us. So we have to hide were dating, its so stressing and the thought of not being able to call him if I NEED him just scares me. He calls me every chance he gets behind her back, my boy friends the most amazing guy I have ever been with and I miss him so bad..He knows this to, he tells me just to keep strong and ...
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19M/14F
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 4:34 pm
mmkay... so theres this guy that Ive been talking to a lot lately, and he says that Im cute and really nice to talk to. He said that nothing would probably happen anytime soon, considering our age difference, and considering he lives in another state. I know what you're thinking, nothing would ever happen, and this girl should date/like someone her own age. I've tried. I just cant stop thinking about him. Just talking to him puts a smile on my face. He said that in the future, we'll never know what might happen. We might be together. I told him that he didnt have to say that stuff just because I like him. I told him to say exactly what he was thinking. Then he said that he thinks I'm amazing. He's a really sweet guy, and he says that he's g...
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would you judge a girl that did this??
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 4:12 pm
Okay lets say you knew this girl was fourteen dating a sixteen year old boy, if you found out that she (she's now fifteen) let him finger her, gave him a hj and a bj, would you judge her?? they dated for seven months. I think you can see that I'm the girl... haha
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how to show my bf I care about him
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 11:29 am
What are some ways I can show my boyfriend I love him and care about him. Please no cutesy romantic stuff because he won't like that. And preferably nothing involving calling him or texting him.
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I'm sick of missing someone who didn't care about me.
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 10:53 pm
It's been two months since my boyfriend and I broke up but I'm still hurting. He treated me like shit while we were dating, hurt me so many ways, and yet when I got to bed every night the only thing I can think about was the way he held me and kissed me and I miss being loved like that. He didn't love me for me, he admitted that, but we had such a physical connection that that's what has hurt so much to lose. He pressured me into going farther than I wanted to physically and it made me sooo attached to him that when he cut it off, it made it twenty times harder than it should have because I know I was too young to deal with those kind of physical connections. We dated for seven months, he was sixteen and I was fourteen, but I'm fifteen now....
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am i supposed to fix things with him???
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 10:47 pm
Hey I'm a fifteen year old girl and my ex is a sixteen year old boy. Since we've broke up, he's always said he wants to try and be friends. But for the two months of being apart its been really hard. I still hurt when I see him, especially when he's around other girls. I don't want him back, I just feel hurt. But I've been a good girl, left him alone, tried to just get over it because I know our relationship was unhealthy and I'm never going back. He texted me though, outta nowhere and said "I don't know if I can be friends with you if your friends are such bitches" and I told him "they just don't like you because they've seen how much you've hurt me..." but then he said "well I don't know if I can deal with being f...
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I need to know what he's thinking, he's driving me crazy.
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 9:51 pm
I met this guy, Kory, about a year ago. We hit it off quick, but later I found out he had a girlfriend the entire time we were seeing eachother.
We've worked hard to get to the point we're at now, where we can have a friendship, because everytime we've tried in the past he's made it impossible by bringing feelings into it.
Now, I'm dating this guy named Matt. He's great. But Kory, who's also friends with Matt, had a problem with us dating. He say's he's too controling for me,and too needy. He also threatens to kick Matt's ass if he ever hurts me, physically, or emotionaly.
It seems like he really does care, and he's told me he still has feelings for me saying:
"I'm not saying I want...
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how can i spice things up in our relationship?
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 7:05 pm
i feel like a failure as a girlfriend. i'm always sad and i can't help it. and because of this, i think my boyfriend is growing tired of having to constantly ask me if i'm feeling okay and then trying to cheer me up. i would also find this very tiring. i don't want to lose him, and i can fake a smile for a certain length of time, so how can i spice things up in our relationship? we don't have sex often, maybe once a month or less. but when we do, is there something i could do to make it better for him? are there some activities we could do that would be really fun for both of us? thanks for any help.
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Rumors, Lies, Truths, and such
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 4:49 pm
I'll keep it short. Im a girl, I have a crush on a girl. Big deal, get over it. It's just a little thing, but its getting to be more to the point where I always think about her. Some chick (that hates me to death) found out about it, and she'll probably tell her. But maybe not. Im not sure. But the thing of it is, I really really like her. Shes beautiful, and shes so sweet and shes nice to everyone. If she found out, I dont know what I'd do, or what she'd do. I dont want her to think of me any differently. I dont want to say its a rumor cuz its not. I cant lie about it, I'd feel guilty. If I tell the truth, she may never talk to me again. I dont know what to do.
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Camping..
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 4:23 pm
My boyfriend is going camping this weekend with a group of friends.. part of that group of friends is his ex girlfriend..I can't go because i have to work. should i be worried?
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confused about 2 men
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 4:09 pm
I have been married for 22 years and am still married after a 3 1/2 year separation. I have been living with another man for 2 1/2 years. He is very good to me but I haven't been able to set a date for our wedding. I still think about my husband a lot. I'm so confused. I'm not sure I know what love is or ever did. The new man has lied to me about minor things but still a lie is a lie. That's something my husband never did. He says he's changed and will never say mean things to me again but everytime he gets mad he does it again. Everyone says its because he's still hurting. What do u think? Please ask any ? 'S you'd like. I need help.
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boy question: was this bad??
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 1:32 pm
Okay... I have a question. I am fifteen now, but I was fourteen at the time, and my bf was sixteen. When we were dating I was what you would call "whipped". I basically let my bf do whatever he wanted, except when he asked for a hand job. I kept telling him no, no, no. But one night we were hanging out and making out on the couch. We were getting pretty into it and all of the sudden he just pulled down his shorts, grabbed my hand, put it on his you know what, and started moving my hand with his hand. It happened so quick, it took me a second to realize what was going on and when I did I pulled my hand away and started crying. I never even talked to him about it after that... but now that were broken up it keeps coming back to me a...
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I don't want to be a toy anymore.
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 1:18 pm
I'm so tired of people seeing me as a toy, and of me letting them treat me like shit. My last bf broke up with me and told me he saw me as a doll. A small pretty girl that let him "play" whenever he wanted. And was more liked when she wasn't talking. Teachers have even told me to "rely on my looks" or "marry rich". I try hard in school... I don't know what I do that makes people see me this way... I know I'm not a naturally assertive person but is that really why I'm getting treated like this?? I don't understand... How can I get people to take me seriously? How can I get a back bone?
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happy sad alone together
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 8:16 am
my ex and i are mates.
but i dont know if he likes me one day he does the next i dont seem to matter.
i want to go out with him again, but my friend likes him also.
what should i do?
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WHAT IS LOVE??!
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 5:56 am
I Honestly think I am in love!! I know most people say it's an UNDESCRIBABLE feeling! But if you can describe you perspective of love to me, PLEASE do
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did he cheat on me with my cousin??
Posted Friday July 16 2010, 9:29 am
I need help!
I met a guy and we really like each other.. I've only known him for about 4 weeks but I'm in Germany visiting my parents. (I've been here for about two of the weeks I've known him for.) We talk on the phone everyday and he says he wants a relationship with me when I get back in three days. Well I was talking to my cousin on the phone and told me not to trust him...Because she heard he was a whore...She also said in that same conversation she wishes I was single..
She was over at my sister's house one night and told her, "My ex didn't know I slept with him." but then switched it to, "I mean talked with him." (let him be the guy's name) My sister told me all of that.
It's terrib...
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getting gfs... adivce needed!
Posted Friday July 16 2010, 5:05 am
how do i get a gf and know she is the one?
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