i still like him even though he never wants to get back together
Question Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 11:17 pm
Okay, I am a girl and 14, so I dated this guy for about 4 months and everything was amazing the first two months. But then he started to really annoy me no matter what the last two months and I was never intown to hang out with him or anything. I was always told that he was cheating on me with other girls while I was away, but i just didn't think he was like that. I don't think that i loved the guy but I think I was close to a feeling like that even though he still annoyed me constantly, he would still put a smile on my face. But when we broke up, it wasn't a nice break up. I told him to never talk to me again, because it really hurt me, even though it was what I wanted. We didn't talk for about a month but I still knew I had feelings for him and the next time we talked it ended in a huge fight with me crying (and I don't normally cry). And now we are really good friends and I hang out with him from time to time, but I really want to date him again, but he says that he could never date me ever again, and it really hurts my feelings. I want him to like me like that again, but he always has other girls on his mind. I just want him to be mine again. Helppp!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MsLove answered Monday July 19 2010, 12:32 am: Being a teenager and having lost a boyfriend can suck on so many levels. But he's not what you need right now. It's obvious that he hurt you, and he probably got hurt as well. And even though it may not seem like it, it could be to hard for him to go back out with you, or he may just not be ready yet.
It's said a thousand times "Girls mature faster than boys" And it's true. He doesn't sound like he is mature enough to handle a real relationship yet. For now you both need to move on, even though you may not want to. It doesn't have to be the end though. Later down the road things might work out for you two, but now just isn't the time.
Gabiie answered Monday July 19 2010, 12:28 am: with my ex its like a link, i know i shouldnt want him and i know he doesnt want me but i cann't help it... so what do you do, hang with other guys have fun, go out, flirt.. and either your ex will come back to you or you'll find someone else on the way. the other solution just be mates with him. [ Gabiie's advice column | Ask Gabiie A Question ]
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