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Okay, I am a girl and 14, so I dated this guy for about 4 months and everything was amazing the first two months. But then he started to really annoy me no matter what the last two months and I was never intown to hang out with him or anything. I was always told that he was cheating on me with other girls while I was away, but i just didn't think he was like that. I don't think that i loved the guy but I think I was close to a feeling like that even though he still annoyed me constantly, he would still put a smile on my face. But when we broke up, it wasn't a nice break up. I told him to never talk to me again, because it really hurt me, even though it was what I wanted. We didn't talk for about a month but I still knew I had feelings for him and the next time we talked it ended in a huge fight with me crying (and I don't normally cry). And now we are really good friends and I hang out with him from time to time, but I really want to date him again, but he says that he could never date me ever again, and it really hurts my feelings. I want him to like me like that again, but he always has other girls on his mind. I just want him to be mine again. Helppp! (link)
Being a teenager and having lost a boyfriend can suck on so many levels. But he's not what you need right now. It's obvious that he hurt you, and he probably got hurt as well. And even though it may not seem like it, it could be to hard for him to go back out with you, or he may just not be ready yet.
It's said a thousand times "Girls mature faster than boys" And it's true. He doesn't sound like he is mature enough to handle a real relationship yet. For now you both need to move on, even though you may not want to. It doesn't have to be the end though. Later down the road things might work out for you two, but now just isn't the time.

Hope this helps
-Ms. Love


so me and this guy i'm talking to are going to college 3.5 hours away from each other. we really like each other but we're afraid that if we date we wouldn't get to see each other. so i'm just wondering how many relationships actually work out when you only get to see them like once or twice a month? i reallyyy like him. (link)
Long distance relationships are hard work. But they do sometimes work out. You two need to be committed to each other and be understanding.
I wouldn't suggest it if either of you have trust issues because that is a big problem with long distance. You must trust the other to be faithful.

Good luck!
-Ms. Love


I'm starting school in august and just want something easy to use with good battery life that is durable. All computers seem the same to me!! Just have to write papers and use the internet basically... And store music and pictures (link)
I have this computer and it's great for a college student!

http://www.qvc.com/qic/qvcapp.aspx/view.2/app.detail/params.CM_SCID.24hr.item.E165169.desc.HP-DV6-156-Notebook-4GBRAM-500GB-HD-DVD-12Cell-Win-7

-Ms. Love


I am an aspiring photographer looking to buy my first really nice camera & start my home studio business. Anyone have any advice on a great camera to get me started? My budget is going to be somewhere around $1,000. Thanks! (link)
http://www.qvc.com/qic/qvcapp.aspx/view.2/app.detail/params.item.E216943.desc.Canon-Rebel-T1i-151MP-DSLR-Camera-Kit-w2-Lenses-4GB-SD-Bag

I have this camera and it works wonders for beginning photographers!

-Ms. Love


I don't know the name of this song but I heard it as a ringtone (i'm not sure if it comes as a ringtone but the phone was the Voyager 2 from Verizon)

The song is sung by a female artist and the first couple of measures are just instrumental...then she sings words like "I don't need your kisses baby"

Anyone have any idea? Thanks (link)
It could possibly be: Baby I, by Bruce Springsteen.

Hope this helps!
-Ms. Love


Hey guys!! I'm in major need of advice right now!! My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months this Saturday. This school year I will be a freshman in high school and he will be a junior. I found out recently that my best guy friend was going to ask me out the same night my boyfriend did!! Everyone except two of my best friends want me to break up with my current boyfriend.. I know that I love my boyfriend with ALL my heart!! But when I'm with my best guy friend, I don't think about my boyfriend.. But when I'm with my boyfriend, I don't think about my best friend.. It is the HARDEST situation I have EVER been through!! Because I I break up with my boyfriend, I will always wonder what couldve been?! But if I do continue to date my current boyfriend.. I will always wonder what couldve been with the other!! I need some help!! Please!!
-Bri2313
Age:14
Gender:Female (link)
Make a pros and cons list! Sounds cheesy - yes. But think about how much you know about the other, how long you've known them. Has there always be a spark? Or is it just because you found out he was going to ask you out?

Or

You could always continue going out with your current boyfriend. See where it goes. If the other guy is truly a best friend, then he'll still be there for you.

-Ms. Love


what are some sexy new things to try while making out? like new kisses to try, or new places to kiss? things that will make my boy really want me. or like cute little things to whisper in his ear? (link)
Here are a few new ways to kiss:

Cold kissing - suck on something cold i.e an ice cube (without his knowing) before you kiss.

Morse Code kissing - send messages to your partner by using long and short kisses.

Nibble on your partners lower lip while kissing

Nibble on their ear

Buy a bag of "pop rocks" and have some sizzling fun while kissing

Lady and the Tramp kissing - I'm sure you'll know what to do(;

Doggy Style - rub noses together and give a quick lick!

Hope this helps!
-Ms. Love


ok... I am 18 and getting married soon.. My mom used to want to do stuff with me all the time.. but for about the past 4 or 5 years it seems like she doesn'treally care about me anymore... I have 2 older sisters and to me it seems like she is more worried about whats going on in their lives then mine...The brides parents are supposed to pay for most of the wedding and the only thingmy mom has done is buy POTATOES!!! I don't want to confront her about it cause she doesn't really listen to me anyway. I try asking her to do things with me and I try to involve her in the wedding plans and everything but I don't know what to o about her anymore..someone please HELP!!! (link)
Step one: Take a deep breath!
Although you may not want to confront your mom, you are most likely going to have to. But first, try talking to your older sisters and see if they know anything that might be bothering your mom. If not, then you need to sit down with your mom one on one and ask if there is anything you can do for her. She may be going through things right now that you are unaware of.

If all else fails then try getting your sisters involved with the wedding more. You mother may spark an interest if they are.

But the best advice from anyone would be to talk to your mother.

-Ms. Love


Im thinking of joining to gym. I definitely need to shed a few lbs, but im just wondering if its worth it financially? The gym has a $30 one off enrolment fee, and then $22 a month. Its a lot cheaper than other gyms in the area, and its open 24hours. Its also really simple i.e. no sauna, not even water machines etc, so they can afford the cheap price.

So is it worth it? Should i just stick to a weight bench in my room and running in the park? Thanks in advance :) (link)
The gym being worth it is up to you. Ask yourself these questions:
Am I going to go to the gym weekly?
Will I stick with it?

Many people find themselves with gym memberships and only use them for the first month are so, after that they simply stop going - and waste their money.

If you feel like you won't be one of those people and really want to stick with it, then I say go for it! If not, running in the park will be a lot cheaper.

-Ms. Love


I am going to create a Myspace and I would like some help finding websites that are safe for my computor with have layouts. Please and Thank you! (link)
I am a previous myspacer, though I haven't had one in years I do remember a safe and good layout site. Now I am assuming you are a girl (due to the heart) but if not you can email or IM me at:

MsLoveAdvice@aim.com

I will then find you a male layout site.

The female layout site is:

http://www.mygirlyspace.com/

-Ms. Love


I tend to bottle up my feelings and keep things to myself, i tend to act like i dont care when i really do, and my peers would always tells me to "stay true to yourself" to me, what does that mean? (link)
To "Stay true to yourself" means to believe what you want to believe, fight for what you want, dream what you want, and don't let anyone else's opinion knock yours down.
Your peers might be telling you this because of the way you act. Keeping things bottled up and pretending not to care are perfect examples of not staying true to yourself.
As hard as it may seem, try to step up and be who you want to be, stop hiding!

-Ms. Love


my friend wont talk 2 me anymore, she has been spending more time with her other friend, what do i do???? :( (link)
First off, think if there was anything you might have said or done to upset your friend.
Even if you don't think you have done anything to deserve the silence, you need to sit your friend down one on one and talk to them about whats bothering you and why. Explain to them that you don't want to lose such a good friend.
Note: I would not suggest doing this via note, email, ect. Face to face is the way to go!




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