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Torn between my boyfriend and best friend!!
Hey guys!! I'm in major need of advice right now!! My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months this Saturday. This school year I will be a freshman in high school and he will be a junior. I found out recently that my best guy friend was going to ask me out the same night my boyfriend did!! Everyone except two of my best friends want me to break up with my current boyfriend.. I know that I love my boyfriend with ALL my heart!! But when I'm with my best guy friend, I don't think about my boyfriend.. But when I'm with my boyfriend, I don't think about my best friend.. It is the HARDEST situation I have EVER been through!! Because I I break up with my boyfriend, I will always wonder what couldve been?! But if I do continue to date my current boyfriend.. I will always wonder what couldve been with the other!! I need some help!! Please!!
-Bri2313
Age:14
Gender:Female
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no pros and cons list!!!! not the right way to handal it. first off im thirteen and i know you cant love to people the same you have to love more... and i know you love your best guy friend or you wouldnt be asking. i say stay with your current bf because if you were to break up with him for someone else that would kill him if he loves you. if you tell the "friend" no if you break up with ur bf ( that means he doesnt love you enough) youu could always ask your "friend" but let him down easy
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Make a pros and cons list! Sounds cheesy - yes. But think about how much you know about the other, how long you've known them. Has there always be a spark? Or is it just because you found out he was going to ask you out?
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You could always continue going out with your current boyfriend. See where it goes. If the other guy is truly a best friend, then he'll still be there for you.
-Ms. Love
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