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I'm sick of missing someone who didn't care about me.
It's been two months since my boyfriend and I broke up but I'm still hurting. He treated me like shit while we were dating, hurt me so many ways, and yet when I got to bed every night the only thing I can think about was the way he held me and kissed me and I miss being loved like that. He didn't love me for me, he admitted that, but we had such a physical connection that that's what has hurt so much to lose. He pressured me into going farther than I wanted to physically and it made me sooo attached to him that when he cut it off, it made it twenty times harder than it should have because I know I was too young to deal with those kind of physical connections. We dated for seven months, he was sixteen and I was fourteen, but I'm fifteen now. I just don't know what to do. I'm sick of missing someone who didn't care about me. I just want to be held by him again, but only by him and I don't know why... Please some one help, I hate this hurt.
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it can take a lot longer than 2 months to get over someone, so how you're feeling is normal. my opinion is that you probably cared so much about him because he didn't show the same affection towards you, which made him a bit of a challenge. this is how i've felt previously any way. let's face facts now; you were too good for him. why be with somebody who isn't willing to care about you in the same way that you do about him. i've been in this situation before and it's not good. meeting someone far better than my ex made me see this, but I guess I was just blind to it because I was in love, and I think you will feel the same too. you deserve better than him and the sooner you realise that the better! start focusing more on you rather than others because you deserve to :) and if he ever comes crawling back to you, don't take him back! he's hurt you... he doesn't deserve you! keep smiling and good luck :)
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Look, I'm so sorry for your situation, but you gotta remind yourself everyday that he did not deserve you. He only treated you badly and used you when he wanted. His kisses and hugs aren't worth a thing, if he didn't know what you are worth. You have to let that boy go. He's not worth it and he ain't better than any other boy in the world. In fact, he seems like a ______ (fill in the blank for cuss word). Sorry for my honesty, but that's just what I think.
Don't let his memory torment you any longer, and give yourself a chance to experience a good love.
:) Take Care
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Hey,
Please please please don't yearn for a relationship with a guy that makes it clear to you that he's only looking for sex. You would be selling yourself sooooo short! There are so many other guys out there that you could date. Spend more time with family and friends, and date other people. This will help you get your mind off of the ex-boyfriend, for sure, and eventually, you'll find someone that you can count on to hold you, and show you affection, and you won't have to go further than you want to before you're ready. Whenever the hurtful thoughts hit you, get around someone/people who can help you take your mind off of them. Hope I helped =)
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It sounds like a similar relationship my friend was in but when you find another guy that holds you and kisses you, the ex will be old news
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Clearly this guy wasn't good for you. You may always miss him, but you need to find someone who loves you and cares about you for you. It probably will be hard for you to stop comparing other guys to him or to always wonder about him, but he doesn't deserve you. You realize that he hurt you and treated you like shit so you should realize that even if he does come back to you one day, he would just be using you. And if he shouldn't pressure you into doing stuff you aren't comfortable with, if he truly cared he would have waited. You just need to find someone who cares about you and is a good friend.
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