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am i supposed to fix things with him???
Hey I'm a fifteen year old girl and my ex is a sixteen year old boy. Since we've broke up, he's always said he wants to try and be friends. But for the two months of being apart its been really hard. I still hurt when I see him, especially when he's around other girls. I don't want him back, I just feel hurt. But I've been a good girl, left him alone, tried to just get over it because I know our relationship was unhealthy and I'm never going back. He texted me though, outta nowhere and said "I don't know if I can be friends with you if your friends are such bitches" and I told him "they just don't like you because they've seen how much you've hurt me..." but then he said "well I don't know if I can deal with being friends with you either. I mean, when we were dating the only time I felt like I liked you was when we were hooking up..." and I mean, I knew that was true but he'd never actually said it before and so I exploded on him. I said lots of mean things and he did too but needless to say we didn't end up on a good note... Now I don't know what to do... I don't want things to stay this bad but I also don't wanna deal with him. He's not gonna apologize, and I'm tired of being the one always going back to him and saying sorry. I just... don't know what I'm supposed to do... Please help!
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Don't hang out with him.
Get rid of his phone number and stop calling/texting him.
Your feelings will go away when you can keep your distance. This guy sounds like a douche bag. You don't need to "be friends". The idea that exes need to be friends is not a good one. It's best to move on, since you should never be friends with some one you have feelings for.
Especially not someone who you have feelings for AND who hurt you.
You don't need to apologize for anything, and you can't force him to either.
Stop "always going back" to apologize. You have every right to be mad at this guy. Just keep your distance and ignore him.
But don't go out of your way to be mean, either.
It's perfectly fine to end a bad relationship on a bad note.
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First off honey dear, this "boy" does not deserve you. Second, this child needs to learn some manners and respect his ex girlfriend. I don't know the details of what went wrong in your relationship or you're break up but I guess he wasn't the best boyfriend ever. You just need to stop talking to him for a while and let things cool down between yall and next time yall talk let him know that things HAVE TO BE CIVIL. And it is not cool of him to say he only liked you when yall hooked up even if it was obvious, because that is one of those things you keep to yourself. This little boy, who seems to have a huge ego, needs to learn when to hold his fingers when he is texting. But I know how it is hard to get over a guy after you break up, I alway have that feeling with my exes even if we broke up a long time ago, because they were yours once, and you can't stand thinking of them being someone else's. I think it is that way with a lot of girls, almost all of them. But I think this guy is sooo not right for you so it's good that you don't like him like that. I just think that you need to tell him you don't deserve his rude comments after you take time away from him.
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