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Rumors, Lies, Truths, and such
I'll keep it short. Im a girl, I have a crush on a girl. Big deal, get over it. It's just a little thing, but its getting to be more to the point where I always think about her. Some chick (that hates me to death) found out about it, and she'll probably tell her. But maybe not. Im not sure. But the thing of it is, I really really like her. Shes beautiful, and shes so sweet and shes nice to everyone. If she found out, I dont know what I'd do, or what she'd do. I dont want her to think of me any differently. I dont want to say its a rumor cuz its not. I cant lie about it, I'd feel guilty. If I tell the truth, she may never talk to me again. I dont know what to do.
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short sweet and to the point be honest and tell her but you really shouldnt care what other people think about it. its none of there bussiness and the only reason they would bother you about it is because they have no life and nothing better to do. (just being honest) and plus if you are bisexual (which i dont know) guys think that is very very sexy when a chick likes another girl.
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It's best this girl hears how you feel from you.
Tell her in person. Don't write a note or email, etc. That can come back to haunt you later.
Tell her when she's not around her friends and when you're not putting her on the spot or in an awkward situation. Be honest if she asks you first, or if anyone else asks.
She's going to find out now anyway, from this other girl. You have to tell her first.
There's a chance she already knows. Girls can pick up on that stuff.
Be prepared to hear that she doesn't feel the same. There's a chance she's gay or bi, but if she's straight you've got to accept and respect that.
Even if she's gay or bi, she still may not feel the same as you do. You have to be prepared to hear that, too.
Life is FULL of rejection. It hurts less with time.
Good luck. I really hope this works out for you (no sarcasm).
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