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did he cheat on me with my cousin??
I need help!
I met a guy and we really like each other.. I've only known him for about 4 weeks but I'm in Germany visiting my parents. (I've been here for about two of the weeks I've known him for.) We talk on the phone everyday and he says he wants a relationship with me when I get back in three days. Well I was talking to my cousin on the phone and told me not to trust him...Because she heard he was a whore...She also said in that same conversation she wishes I was single..
She was over at my sister's house one night and told her, "My ex didn't know I slept with him." but then switched it to, "I mean talked with him." (let him be the guy's name) My sister told me all of that.
It's terrible cause I'm all the way over here and I can't tell what's going on. I called my cousin and asked her if she had slept with him and she was like, "No!!! Why would you think that??" and I also called the guy and asked him and he got really upset and started saying stuff like, "No baby, I promise I didn't do it. I would never do anything like that." and he kept asking me, "Who told you that?" and he was also like, "I don't want anyone but you, I'd never hurt you like that. I seriously only want you." He also said that my cousin isn't his type. (Comforting...) After we got off the phone together I called my cousin to talk to her again... and he called her while I was on the line with her and was like, "Where did she hear that from?" and was yelling at her. I can't help but think they are both lying to me. I told him to stay away from my cousin because I think she is trying to break us up out of spite (she's done it before to other girls, I just didn't think she'd do it to me) and he said he would because he doesn't want anything to mess this up.
I'm just so confused. I don't want to give up on this guy. I don't know if just my cousin is lying to just break us up or what. Can someone help me pleaaaassse???
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im a guy and personally i think he did have sex with your cousin. but if he didnt he is still kissing her and stuff look i say leave him. you can do better then that and once a cheater always a cheater but im here for you
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Hello..I'm sorry about you being away from whats going on..its probably really stressing, but I feel for you. I went threw this stuff before, and I think what you said was right..both of them are lieing. The guy obviously knows your cousin, and him calling and yelling either sounds to me suspicious or maybe not? You never could know with this guy. You don't know him enough yet you know? Your cousin done things like that with other girls? Friends maybe? :/ She doesn't seem like the trustful type..thats just plan wrong, and if she is doing something like that, trying to break you both up you have to have a serious talk with her, and tell her that your her sister and thats very disrespectble. I don't know if I'm doing much help, but like I said I've been in this situation before and I honestly believe what my boy friend tells me, because he never really gave me a reason to not beleive him. So just go with what your heart thinks. Its worth the try..when you get back..see them both privately I would say, and make sure you get each of there sides of the story. Don't stress yourself out to much, you don't need that.
Good luck to you! I hope I helped..>.<
Emily <3
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