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would you judge a girl that did this??


Question Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 4:12 pm

Okay lets say you knew this girl was fourteen dating a sixteen year old boy, if you found out that she (she's now fifteen) let him finger her, gave him a hj and a bj, would you judge her?? they dated for seven months. I think you can see that I'm the girl... haha

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staceyxlove answered Monday July 26 2010, 10:35 am:
i wouldn't, but that's in my nature. however I could see why others would. just do what makes you happy, aslong as you are being safe etc :)

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karenR answered Monday July 19 2010, 7:50 am:
You've gotten several answers already and mine really isn't a lot different. I wouldn't judge.

Here is where I am going to offer something a little different. Maybe its because I am an old broad. LOL

Why is it anyone's business what you are doing sexually? Be mature and keep it just between you and your guy. Its nobody elses business. :)

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XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday July 18 2010, 7:50 pm:
I don't judge people at all, unless what they do/did effects me personally. So no, I would not judge you at all for doing this. Personally I didn't do things like that when I was your age, but, everyone is different. Just remember to use protection, you can still get a STD from oral sex. Hope I helped! Stay safe!

-Brina

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kellinicole123 answered Sunday July 18 2010, 7:47 pm:
I think you shouldn't care about people judging you, and if they did then it's their problem. So find friends who don't.

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MAK answered Sunday July 18 2010, 6:43 pm:
In my personal opinion I think she is way too young for this kind of physical relationship. Also, because the boy is a bit older, I would wonder if he had anything to do with pressuring her into this, or perhaps she participated in this behavior because "everyone else is doing it."

And not to blow it out of proportion, but its possible to get STD's from this kind of behavior, and if I hear of someone getting an STD younger than 18, my immediate response is what has that she done to her life, and where in the world were her parents? Just something to think about.

MAK, 19

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OhMyLucyDarling answered Sunday July 18 2010, 5:45 pm:
This will be a little blunt..


I am a firm believer in waiting until at least 17, Younger folks that are sexually experienced I normally don't respect or really care for. I find them under peer presure and uneducated.

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