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Boyfriends Music
Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 9:47 am
Hi, I am 18f and I have a boyfriend the same age. He has one type of music that is his favorite, which is metal... and so that is all he listens to. My dilemma is that I don't really like metal (I can listen to it, but I don't care for it) and the music I listen to (pop,rock,country,almost anything but metal ironically), he doesn't really like. How can we make it so that we both like eachothers kind of music so that we are both happy in a vehicle or at a party? I would really love for him to listen to some of my music that has good lyrics, soul, and a catchy beat rather than head banging stuff all the time, you know? Cuz I believe we could connect on another level if we have music that sets the mood for both of us (hard to have a romatic se...
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My Boyfriend Is Sleeping With Someoen Else At Work
Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 7:04 am
i been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and years we also work together i only found out he was sleeping wit some one eles that we work wit i went mad i posted it up on facebook and mention both there names he went to t boss and showed him texted messages i sent him in anger sayin i was goin to confront her they both went to hr and reported me i after getin transfered to another site that i cant stand i lost alone and dont know wat to do i want my job back were i was but can they do that it dident happn in t work place i ant even seen her
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Friends w/ benefits to boyfriend drama
Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 1:45 am
Lets say you are friends with benefits with a guy, but you have never talked about the status of your relationship with each other, as in you were clueless whether he was having sex with other girls as well (but the girl does mention to the guy she's been "talking" -hint hint nudge nudge, know what I mean- with other guys).
Over the course of the months, they become best friends, and then in a relationship. Whilst in the relationship, neither guy nor girl has cheated or done anything remotely bad. But guy didn't realize that girl had slept with other guys since she met him, and gets mad. He forgives her, but girl feels horrible and regretful about her past, and guy is horrified and embarrassed by it, because its a ...
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feeling lost and confused
Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 7:31 pm
Hello,
I have been married for 2 years. My husband seems to feel the need to have female friends. One female friend he has known a very long time and they are like brother/sister.I am actually fine w/their friendship. Today I want out of town and he told me she was going to spend the night at our place as she lives far away. I told him I felt very uncomfortable w/any female spending the night while I am not there. So now he is mad at me,does not see my point and thinks I am wrong for my views on this.
I do have an issue w/his other female friend. They worked together for 1 year and have seemed to develop a very close friendship. I found out that he was holding money for her, they would have lunch at work together. There were r...
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Sexually Confused...
Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 5:17 pm
I am a fifteen-year-old student. Just a small-town girl. Living in a loooonely world~ XD Just kidding. I have an amazing boyfriend; we've been together for a solid ten months, and I know I love him with all my heart.
But I've started asking myself a lot of questions lately. It all started at a summer boarding program, in which I was a part of the Theater program. It was basically me locked in a room with fifteen other unique, creative people. This was the first point in which I really noticed a change.
We were playing Truth or Dare. After having so many stereotypical dares (kiss this guy, hump that pole :P :P), everyone just decided to start kissing everybody. I, not really awkwarded out, joined in, making sure...
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making out at the movies for the first time
Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 3:39 pm
how do u make out with a guy at the movies this is my first time n i need to now what it means an how to do it
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Love and relationships
Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 10:28 am
Im a 18/m who has or had a 18/f. She recently told me about 2 things she had lied to me about. What they are doesnt matter, what does is that we could have worked past them. So after she told me these things i broke up with her, because she had already started telling me that she loves me.
This is my second serious relationship and thats why im asking this question. Can someone love you and still lie to you about fairly big things? She is perfect for me, she loves me more than i love myself, and i always saw her as the most caring loving person that i've met. So the reason i broke up with her is that she tells me that she loves me and i always thought that when you love someone you don't lie to them like that. I love her too and i w...
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Excuses to talk to me?
Posted Friday August 27 2010, 8:57 pm
I feel like my crush makes silly excuses to talk to me. He asks me questions that I almost know for a fact that he already knows the answers to. It makes me think "duh, he likes me," but sometimes the signs aren't that clear. He's nice to me, as he is to everyone, but I don't typically find him staring at me every second. He's smiles and/or waves when we see eachother or make eye contact. One thing I have noticed is that if I see him from far away, it feels like he will suddenly turn or act a bit startled. Haha. But on some days there is zero interaction between us and it leaves me feeling like he doesn't like me. I'm a grade and a year older than him which leads me to think that he thinks that I'm unattainable. Could this be the ...
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kissing
Posted Friday August 27 2010, 8:38 pm
How to turn on a guy on when kissing him??
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I feel unappreciated.
Posted Friday August 27 2010, 7:12 pm
I've been with my boyfriend for five years. Last year we broke up but then got back together 5 months later. We've almost been back together for a year. We broke up becos I felt unappreciated, there was no romance, and it got so boring that I was going crazy. It's actually worse since we've gotten back together. There's never any thank yous or appreciation shown when I do things for him. He helps me out financially so I feel indebted to him. I'm afraid of making the wrong decision if I leave. Where do you draw the line?
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Brand New Guy. Relationship? One night stand?
Posted Friday August 27 2010, 4:07 pm
Okay so there is this guy i was set up with by one of my best friends. We finally met up without her and to both of our surprise it wasn't awkward at all. We were totally comfortable and had so much in common and think the same way. Ten minutes after my good friend called me and said she talked to him a second ago and he was raving about me and how he had never met anyone like me. This was great to me. He immediately texted me and for the past week we've been texting throughout the whole day every day and he always wants me to text first and said he wudnt treat me like shit like the rest of them. i am worried though like every girl ill be used, what are some signs that he wants a relationship?
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boyfriend cheated
Posted Friday August 27 2010, 2:10 pm
I'm 20/f, my boyfriend is 18. We've been together for 3 years. We've had our ups and downs, but we've always worked out. Basically, he's done a lot of crap to me that I just put up with.Anyway, I found out that he cheated on me a couple of weeks ago. (He had sex with another girl;I don't know her) And now I can't figure out what to do. I know it seems obvious..I have always said I would dump somebody in a minnesota minute if they cheated on me, but I never expected this. Like I said, we've been together for 3 years. He is the only guy I've ever slept with, and I love him.
But I keep going back and forth about what to do, because I still love him and want to be with him, but at the same time, I can't get over him betraying me like tha...
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Confused... She suggested I ask her brother out... should I?
Posted Thursday August 26 2010, 9:00 pm
im in high school and i had a crush on this guy ever since freshman year and i am a junior now. so his sister is a freshman this year and i have a study hall with her. so she asked me who i would ask to sadie hawkins and i said no one and she suggested i take her brother. she was pretty enthusiastic about it actually. the weird part is, is that she and i never talked before and i find it odd she told me to ask her brother. i wasn't planning on it but now i think i might ask him. should i ask him since i technically got the sister approval
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my best friends crush
Posted Thursday August 26 2010, 8:40 pm
OMG please help me , i really like my bestfriends crush and i think he likes me too , we talk every single day , he told me that he doesnt like my best friend though , what should i do should i tell her i like him ? , but were all going to the ,ovies on soon , and he said he doesnt wanna sit next to her , he also said hes bringing two of hid girl friends but i dont want him to cause i wanna sit next yo him what should i do ? plase help !
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What kind of kiss or other thing?
Posted Thursday August 26 2010, 8:16 pm
I have been with my boyfriend for about 8 and 1/2 months now, and we've done a lot of kissing. We also have done fingering and blow jobs, hand jobs and such. I was wondering what else i could do to keep my boyfriend satisfied, but without having sex because i am afraid of pregnancy. Does anyone have any ideas?
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Is he still hung up over his ex?
Posted Thursday August 26 2010, 3:49 am
21/f.
I recently started dating a new guy. Everything is great and all, but he talks about his ex girlfriend a lot. They broke up 7 months ago, and she dumped him via sms then went out with a new guy 2 days later. I ask him why he talks about her and he says he is just venting, because he thought what she did was cruel and heartless.
They were only together like 3 months, but she was his "first" (if you get me) He tells me that he is totally in love with me, he was only "love struck" by her and that I'm much better than her and he hates her now. Whenever I get mad at him mentioning her he stops but it always comes up again.
I don't get why he is still mentioning her. I was with a guy for 2 ye...
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unknown feeling
Posted Thursday August 26 2010, 3:44 am
ive been feeling weird,drained,and hopeless since i got rejected because getting his attention wass my main goal but now i feel nothing.what is this feeling and what should i do
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My boyfriend is nearly abusing himself.
Posted Thursday August 26 2010, 12:27 am
I'm 20/f, dating a 20/m.
My boyfriend is 6'2" tall, and he's about 210 pounds, which I think is pretty normal. I've never thought he was chubby or even "teddy bear" sized, just that he wasn't exactly thin or scrawny. I know he was a lot heavier when he was younger, but by the time I met him he'd worked a lot of the weight off, so his weight looks to be about average.
Suddenly, in the past two months, he's started talking about how much he HATES the way he looks, how he "better get used to not liking who he is", and how he's upset because "he'll never get to where he wants to be", physically speaking. He joined a gym (I joined with him, because I want to start eating better and...
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The "other woman"?
Posted Wednesday August 25 2010, 11:13 pm
This is quite a long story. please bear with me.
17/f
There's this boy. he and i have been pretty close friends for more than 5 years. When we were younger, we had a little crush on eacother, but we were young, and nothing ever came out of it. A few years after that, when we were about 14, we started talking and i was convinced we were going to end up together. That year, i went on vacation, and when i came back, he had a girlfriend. (ive always hated this girl, just throwing that in there). I was upset with him for a while, but we weren't actually dating or anything, so i did the mature thing and didnt make a big deal out of it. We stayed friends since then.
now here's the "good" part. About ...
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my best guy friend likes me :/
Posted Wednesday August 25 2010, 2:04 pm
hi i have been friends with this guy for about 2-3 years and he has liked me and i knew it... but that was about a couple of years ago... and i thought he went off me i have never reall as in REALLY loved him... but he went out with one of my sorta ish friend but she is not really my friend and they never worked out like at all!!
now he says he likes me... and idk if i feel the same... but he makes me feel good about myself and has always been there for me.. and we are really friends...
should i give him a chance...
or should i wait....
or should i stay friends ?
please help me please i really need some advise
thanks
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