I feel like my crush makes silly excuses to talk to me. He asks me questions that I almost know for a fact that he already knows the answers to. It makes me think "duh, he likes me," but sometimes the signs aren't that clear. He's nice to me, as he is to everyone, but I don't typically find him staring at me every second. He's smiles and/or waves when we see eachother or make eye contact. One thing I have noticed is that if I see him from far away, it feels like he will suddenly turn or act a bit startled. Haha. But on some days there is zero interaction between us and it leaves me feeling like he doesn't like me. I'm a grade and a year older than him which leads me to think that he thinks that I'm unattainable. Could this be the reason that he hasn't made serious efforts to become closer?
All this said, I'm a pretty doubtful of my ability to interpret his behavior because in the past I have admitted to guys that I like them only to find that the feelings were only one-sided :/. Hence why I will probably not tell him how I feel until I graduate. I know it's cowardly of me, but I don't want to go through the hassle of awkwardness again.
So...what does everyone think?
Yay, nay?
Thanks :).
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? snowboardbabe answered Saturday August 28 2010, 9:54 am: Hm well maybe he just doesn't want anything at the moment , obviously something is bothering him or hes a hard thinker if you startled him. I don't think the age really matters , but you never know right. I think this guy either wants to be on his own or hes a really nice guy. Maybe he doesn't want any kind of attachment or he's just a really shy guy who doesn't show his feelings. I think you should keep it low and see what happens , see if any contact continues and from there you'll know. If he likes you no matter what he will come to you , so don't worry girl. My advice to you is go out and see what happens and I don't think the age difference is the factor , but it could be. What i'm saying is there is no actualy distinction that he likes you or doesn't like you, try making him go into a conversation see if he tries to keep it up or just leaves. It could really help.
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