Confused... She suggested I ask her brother out... should I?
Question Posted Thursday August 26 2010, 9:00 pm
im in high school and i had a crush on this guy ever since freshman year and i am a junior now. so his sister is a freshman this year and i have a study hall with her. so she asked me who i would ask to sadie hawkins and i said no one and she suggested i take her brother. she was pretty enthusiastic about it actually. the weird part is, is that she and i never talked before and i find it odd she told me to ask her brother. i wasn't planning on it but now i think i might ask him. should i ask him since i technically got the sister approval
dntletitgo2urhead answered Thursday August 26 2010, 11:47 pm: To ask or not to ask?...It depends. This is definitely good news that his sister thinks of you two as a potential couple, but do you think that he does? It's possible that his sister knows something you don't know, (who knows, maybe he's had a crush on you for two years now too, and that's why his sister brought it up!) or maybe her suggestion that you should ask him was totally at random. She could have even been going around seeing if many different girls would ask her brother to the dance since she knows no one has asked him yet. Since it could go either way, I think you should try and feel him out before you ask him - try and figure out where he stands with you before you ask. Basically all I'm saying is see how he reacts when you strike up a conversation with him. Does he seem like he's into you, or is he not very responsive? Since you like this guy, I wouldn't want you to get hurt. I'm not trying to discourage you, though!! If you feel like you have nothing to lose in asking him, then go for it! But otherwise, I'd try and decode his actions to see if he's interested before somewhat randomly asking him out.
Good luck and hope it works out!! [ dntletitgo2urhead's advice column | Ask dntletitgo2urhead A Question ]
snowboardbabe answered Thursday August 26 2010, 10:39 pm: Wow , well things happen for a reason don't they? I say maybe the guy you like maybe he's shy , doesn't know how to approach him , maybe it's time you ask. I think you should go for it , see what happens. His sister likes the idea and she seemed enthusiastic so , I say go for it :) My advice to you is you should go :) ask him.
Good luck girl! : ) [ snowboardbabe's advice column | Ask snowboardbabe A Question ]
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